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Out of Sparta (My Title: How the Pashtun Raise Their Young)
National Review ^ | Nov 5 2001 | Stanley Kurtz

Posted on 11/05/2001 1:09:17 PM PST by Anamensis

The following is an excerpt from Kurtz's most recent column in National Review. These are the Pashtun, the tribe that makes up the Taliban:

Charles Lindholm, an anthropologist at Boston University, has written an important but little-known account of Pashtun life in Northern Pakistan (which is all but indistinguishable from Pashtun life in Afghanistan). In Generosity and Jealousy, Lindholm describes the rearing of Pashtun boys and girls — particularly boys — and the picture Lindholm paints will surprise, puzzle, and distress most Americans.

The Pashtun unhesitatingly beat their children — slapping them hard across the face simply for stumbling or bumping into something. For coming home late, spilling tea, or for almost any other reason, a Pashtun child may find himself tied up and hung from the rafters of the house. Not only do adults see nothing wrong with publicly beating a child, they freely show pleasure in doing so. Children are encouraged to beat each other as well. Lindholm gives the example of a six-year-old girl who spilled a bowl of curd. Her father punished her by making her do deep-knee bends while holding her ears until she collapsed. "He then asked her elder siblings to kick her, which they did with gusto." The story itself was told to Lindholm with pride and glee, much as are stories of Pashtun wife beating (and by the way, Pashtun wives give almost as good as they get).

It might seem odd to mete out such severe punishments for stumbling or for dropping some food. But Pashtuns don't sanction behaviors that might disturb an American — stealing from outsiders, lying, or fighting. On the contrary, a boy who steals a toy from his uncle's house might find his own father helping him to pull off the theft. For the Pashtun, the world is filled with deceit, and one must learn to fend for oneself, with only immediate family immune from betrayal (and sometimes not even them). What is odious to a Pashtun is not theft, or lying, or fighting, but weakness, carelessness, and clumsiness — anything which diminishes an individual's power and self-command.

Boys roam in groups in which they constantly jockey for power and learn to fight. A boy running to his family when he's been beaten by a playmate may be beaten again by his father for his weakness. Mothers make no effort to see that playthings are shared. On the contrary, the stronger children will be encouraged to take from the weaker. Siblings regularly betray each other's misdeeds to their parents and are rewarded by being allowed to beat the miscreant. Children lie and pass blame without qualm. "Survival of the fittest," says Lindholm.

Older children are generally left to themselves. They huddle and shiver in the rain, since no one tells them to change into dry clothes. In summer the dirt and heat cause boils and running sores, which the children accept as of a piece with the ordinary depredations of life. In effect, Pashtun children are left to toughen themselves up, so as to endure without complaint the stresses of existence in a hostile and dangerous world. They learn that all men are equal — equally free to dominate their weaker fellows. The Pashtun therefore cultivate a fierce and defiant independence, a thirst for dominance, and a reluctant but occasionally necessary willingness to acknowledge a stronger hand.


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There's more but you get the idea. What can really be done with such a people?
1 posted on 11/05/2001 1:09:17 PM PST by Anamensis
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To: dennisw; FITZ; MHGinTN; BenF
Ping.
2 posted on 11/05/2001 1:10:18 PM PST by Anamensis
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To: Ann Archy
More peace and love, brought to you by our muslim friends.
3 posted on 11/05/2001 1:11:10 PM PST by Anamensis
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To: EggsAckley; dirtboy; Stand Watch Listen
Here's who we're fighting.
4 posted on 11/05/2001 1:13:57 PM PST by Anamensis
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To: RobertBauman
If the peaceniks could indeed spend a week with the Pashtun....
5 posted on 11/05/2001 1:17:32 PM PST by Anamensis
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To: Anamensis
Clearly, America is the problem here. Phhht!
6 posted on 11/05/2001 1:30:47 PM PST by Slainte
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To: SAMWolf
All their children have big sad eyes. Check out this s**t.
7 posted on 11/05/2001 1:31:56 PM PST by Anamensis
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To: Anamensis
The future for a low trust and low cooperation society is poverty. A scavanger economy has no future. Just keep these people the **** out of our country.
8 posted on 11/05/2001 1:33:19 PM PST by Dialup Llama
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To: Anamensis
They huddle and shiver in the rain, since no one tells them to change into dry clothes.

Even my dogs have enough smarts to come in out of the rain.

9 posted on 11/05/2001 1:35:15 PM PST by SAMWolf
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To: vladog
Here are some non-Western values for the Muslims to admire.
10 posted on 11/05/2001 1:37:17 PM PST by Anamensis
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To: Anamensis
This reminds me of a pack of hyenas... And they said the USA was responsible for this!!!
11 posted on 11/05/2001 1:37:56 PM PST by Toidylop
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To: Dialup Llama
A scavenger country with cruelty as its highest value. This is what the muslim world would hold up as Islam. Well, okay.
12 posted on 11/05/2001 1:38:26 PM PST by Anamensis
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To: Toidylop
Amazing isn't it? These people tie up, beat and kick their children until they are as vicious as pit bulls. And these are the "poor Afghanis that we are bombing."
13 posted on 11/05/2001 1:39:49 PM PST by Anamensis
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To: Pericles
We've seen how muslims convert people, now let's look at how they raise children. Oh, I'm sorry, "some" muslims.
14 posted on 11/05/2001 1:42:54 PM PST by Anamensis
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To: Anamensis
The family that preys together stays together.
16 posted on 11/05/2001 1:48:10 PM PST by ikanakattara
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To: Anamensis
Thanks for the heads-up. I've been developing a theory about the people who remain in Afghanistan. I think that many, many have left, some recently and many, long ago. Perhaps the Afghans who had value systems and education have all fled and what's left now are the unsophisticated, uneducable tribal throw-backs.

That's why I'm a little concerned about what will happen when the Taliban is exterminated. If there's no one left but the backward nomads, there won't be any intelligent, forward-thinking Afghans left to rebuild a nation.

Afghanistan was at one time a thriving, healthy country, with education, medicine, industry. Who can replace all that now? Or maybe the ones who are left don't even want it anyway.

17 posted on 11/05/2001 1:49:32 PM PST by EggsAckley
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To: Anamensis
Anthropology is the field of study of choice for those who long for a sex-change operation but can't afford it or are too cheap to shell out for a new wardrobe.

The jokes that Polynesians played on a gullible Margaret Meade are still fodder for misinformation in lesbo-fascist "Women's Study" courses on American Campuses--even though they've been laughed out of the park due to more rigorous scholarship.

So, not only are we bombing The Evil Taliban because they beat women, now we are bombing them because they beat kids? Why don't we send in one of the State Child Protective Services to fight them? That organization regularly kills children and destroys the lives of their parents. And they do it for peanuts.

In the meantime, does anybody know when we're going to go after those who committed the attacks of September 11th?

I wonder what an Afghani anthropologist could make of the way Americans raise their children? Hmmmmm? Chubby, illiterate, couch potatoes, MTV, early sexual activity, abortion, condoms, Little League parents rioting, and worst of all--the dreaded Soccer-Mom phenomenon.

18 posted on 11/05/2001 1:49:53 PM PST by LaBelleDameSansMerci
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To: LaBelleDameSansMerci
But remember: anthropologists are notoriously left-wing. Rarely, if ever, have they produced literature intent upon helping demonize the people they are studying. And if you read the entire article, it's possible to detect a great deal of the cultural relativism rampant in humanties academia.

Finally, the post was not "this is why we are bombing them." It isn't. They've been doing this for decades, perhaps centuries. Whatever. We're bombing them because of something that happened about 7 weeks ago, you may remember it, this incident in NY?

19 posted on 11/05/2001 1:57:19 PM PST by Anamensis
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To: Anamensis
very interesting ... I also read separately that the Afghans don't respond to their babies's crying. So, the result is that Afghan babies just don't cry due to the fact that they get absolutely zero attention for doing so. By comparison we respond to the babies when they cry, so our babies cry like crazy, theirs cry none at all.
20 posted on 11/05/2001 1:57:21 PM PST by Red Jones
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To: Anamensis
Actually that probably IS why we are bombing them. Brute force is the only thing they respect. They learn that there are pecking orders early in life, and that you may hate someone stronger than you, you MUST respect him.
21 posted on 11/05/2001 2:05:55 PM PST by NeonKnight
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To: Anamensis
It's the constant drumbeat of demonization that I object to. You might also remember a little humanitarian capmpaign a few years back against the demon/nazi Serbs--the rape camps, mass graves, forced blood donations and blah, blah, blah. None was true--in spite of the fact that the entire corporate media/government bureaucracy went into overdrive with "cultural" experts and trained "historians" bloviating around the clock upon the demonic nature of these backwards, nationalist, religious fanatics.

Have you seen something linking the "Stone Age" Taliban to the attacks carried out on September 11th? I've seem plenty of bloody footprints leading up to the palaces of Saudi oil shieks, to firing ranges in Wales, to mosques in London, Germany and the United States, to college campuses in the USA and other Western Countries, to car dealerships in Egypt, but NONE to the, now smokey, holes of Afghanistan.

You say they won't "cough up" Osama? Well, our government wouldn't cough up the Shah either; and the Iranian government had quite a list of horrors for which they wanted to try him too. Were they justified in doing what they did to punish us for our intransigence in your opinion?

22 posted on 11/05/2001 2:19:34 PM PST by LaBelleDameSansMerci
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To: Anamensis
What can really be done with such a people?

One certainly doesn't feed them, does one? I have some ideas of what we should do to them, but I suspect that my fellow FReepers aren't ready (yet) for my views....

23 posted on 11/05/2001 2:26:54 PM PST by neutrino
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To: Anamensis
From the full NR article: They can be defeated, but perhaps only by the deployment of overwhelming force on the ground.

Right, just ask the Russians. The last thing we need is a large ground presence in Afghanistan -- that could set against us not only Pushtuns but also Tajiks, Uzbeks, Hazara, Kabulwallahs, and those strange pale, blue-eyed folks of Nuristan. We need to keep in mind our expressed objectives: Destroy OBL and al Qaeda root and branch, and punish the Taliban for supporting and harboring the terrorists. We need to keep in mind what our objectives are not: Reforming Afghanistan (i.e., making them like Americans), deciding the way their nation, government, and cultures will operate, and developing the country (so it looks more like America, in which the people can be more comfortable after they are reformed). Our advantage in achieving our objectives in that country is our technology. Use it incrementally -- as we seem to be intent on doing -- and this event will last longer than our political will. Use it quickly and with overwhelming violence in conjunction with repeated company and battalion size insertions in ways that feature our firepower and the Pushtun will soon be asking himself and his cousin why they are bleeding for those Saudis, Egyptians, and Algerians living in caves over there in the next valley.

24 posted on 11/05/2001 2:40:15 PM PST by Whilom
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To: Anamensis
Here's who we're fighting.

No, these are our allies, too...

26 posted on 11/05/2001 3:39:53 PM PST by xm177e2
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To: LaBelleDameSansMerci
It's the constant drumbeat of demonization that I object to.

I've listened to Afghan women discuss that they were forced to leave their homelands if they wanted to work and earn a living. I've heard Afghan women say that women are denied medical care because only a woman can touch them and yet no women are allowed to work as doctors. And they can be whipped for showing an ankle or beaten if they are seen without a burka. This is very much a sick society, it doesn't need "demonization" it just is demonic. I believe this is how the children of the Taliban are raised. We also can't forget the Taliban is using the children as shields to protect a filthy rich Arab who has done nothing for them, they will allow them all to suffer and die because for the acts of bin Laden.

27 posted on 11/05/2001 6:37:47 PM PST by FITZ
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To: Anamensis
We've seen how muslims convert people, now let's look at how they raise children. Oh, I'm sorry, "some" muslims.

Muslims in general seem very predisposed to using children as human shields. You see it in the Palestinians all the time who will send out very young children to throw rocks at soldiers with guns. Any "religion" or whatever you call it, that would do such a thing is worse than barbaric. Their own children are nothing but pawns to use in their dirty wars and terrorist acts.

28 posted on 11/05/2001 6:43:23 PM PST by FITZ
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To: FITZ
"...I've listened to Afghan women discuss that they were forced to leave their homelands if they wanted to work and earn a living......"

My dear Fitz, may I suggest that you audit a "Wimmyn's Study" course offered by any "elite" US university? You will be pleased, I'm sure, to hear the hair-raising tales of what it's like--and what it has always been like-- to be a woman in America.

I'm sure the Marxist Afghan Women's Project is extremely pleased to see the Great Dummy doing their dirty work for them.

I'd much rather be The Great Satan than The Great Dummy any day.....

29 posted on 11/06/2001 6:06:51 AM PST by LaBelleDameSansMerci
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To: LaBelleDameSansMerci
Isn't something called RAWA the Marxist Women Project in Afghanistan? Revolutionary Action of Women of Aghanistan, or something. Clearly, they are labelled the brave and democratic voice of reason in our press. Wonder when we will start arming them....
30 posted on 11/06/2001 6:13:23 AM PST by NewAmsterdam
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To: LaBelleDameSansMerci
Well, our government wouldn't cough up the Shah either; and the Iranian government had quite a list of horrors for which they wanted to try him too. Were they justified in doing what they did to punish us for our intransigence in your opinion?

There's a difference between someone hiding in our country after the fact and someone continuing to operate and orchestrate terrorism WHILE hiding in another country, wouldn't you say?

As for the "demonization" accusation, this was not intended (by the anthropologist at least) to demonize the Afghanis, it was offered by Kurtz as an explanation for why they are so tough and a warning about what we are up against.

31 posted on 11/06/2001 6:14:39 AM PST by Anamensis
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To: Whilom
It's a pity that things like "political will" and "public opinion" are such concerns. Like it or not, we will be tasked with putting these ragamuffins back together because already we have heard the howls of the bleeding hearts about how we helped the Afs beat the Rusks and then "just left them there" to lead their lives as they see fit. (How dare we... but wait, if we "interfere" isn't that arrogance, colonialism, imperialism, oh, pick a word...) Some people just sit around and wait to see what others will do so they can jump up and say "Oh, you shouldn't have done THAT."
32 posted on 11/06/2001 6:19:27 AM PST by Anamensis
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To: LaBelleDameSansMerci
My dear Fitz, may I suggest that you audit a "Wimmyn's Study" course offered by any "elite" US university? You will be pleased, I'm sure, to hear the hair-raising tales of what it's like--and what it has always been like-- to be a woman in America.

I had to take a course like that. And you know what? No matter how much they tried to make the housewife of the 50s look like a victim, (poor thing, trapped in the home, bored, watching tv) no matter how hair-raising they tried to make the consequences of rebellion look (dirty looks, disrespect, men sneering at them, lower wages) the words "machine gun" and "death penalty" and "flogging" just never come up. Even Gloria Steinem, try though she might, was unable to make the torture of high-heeled shoes comparable to having your hand chopped right off.

33 posted on 11/06/2001 6:25:10 AM PST by Anamensis
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To: LaBelleDameSansMerci
In the developed world we call it anthropology, but to the Pashtuns it is more like current events.
34 posted on 11/06/2001 6:28:44 AM PST by Petronski
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To: Anamensis
Some people just sit around and wait to see what others will do so they can jump up and say "Oh, you shouldn't have done THAT."

You're right, there will always be the second guessers, no matter how Afghanistan turns out. That's another reason to do what's good for us, not for Afghanistan. I believe what's good for us is to limit our objectives to the destruction of OBL and al Qaeda and the punishing of the Taliban for supporting and harboring them. Then we must move on to the next target, for clearly OBL is not the only -- or even the most dangerous -- terrorist in that part of the world. Like it or not, we are limited in what we can accomplish by "political will" and "public opinion."

35 posted on 11/06/2001 6:41:30 AM PST by Whilom
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To: Anamensis
Speaking of "Kurtz" I strongly recommend you dig out your old copy of "Heart Of Darkness"and re-read it. I'd recommend it to everybody around here but people are so grouchy these days....
36 posted on 11/06/2001 6:47:14 AM PST by LaBelleDameSansMerci
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To: Anamensis
"...Even Gloria Steinem, try though she might, was unable to make the torture of high-heeled shoes comparable to having your hand chopped right off...."

You must have missed the delightful series of lectures by Alice Walker about the prevalence of clitorectomy in the American South, when masses of American women had their little pinkies chopped off because Southern men couldn't fulfill their needs.

Well, I understand that a person can't sit in on every lecture.....

37 posted on 11/06/2001 6:55:16 AM PST by LaBelleDameSansMerci
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To: NewAmsterdam
"...Wonder when we will start arming them...."

I expect to see Shoeless George, flanked by several of these hearty women, waving a copy of Das Kapital and saying: "In my heart I know that nobody could really mean all these harsh, overly-complicated things. Communism is a peaceful philosophy that was perverted by a tiny group of fanatics. Well, we're going to win their philosophy back for them even as we smoke Evil and Terrorism out of their holes....."

38 posted on 11/06/2001 7:01:02 AM PST by LaBelleDameSansMerci
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To: LaBelleDameSansMerci
I did notice, indeed, that there is a lot of 'smoking' going on nowadays. Don't you think it a health-hazard? In my experience smoking is seriously discouraged.
39 posted on 11/06/2001 7:03:36 AM PST by NewAmsterdam
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To: Anamensis
Wipe them off the face of the Earth
40 posted on 11/06/2001 7:15:59 AM PST by tom paine 2
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To: LaBelleDameSansMerci

The jokes that Polynesians played on a gullible Margaret Meade are still fodder for misinformation in lesbo-fascist "Women's Study" courses on American Campuses--even though they've been laughed out of the park due to more rigorous scholarship.

I knew it would be you who exposed the vile anthro-trash. These kooks were the weirdest people I ever came across at university. I can just imagine the Afghans having the laugh of their lives feeding this crap to some pachuli-stick stinking(sp), friendship-bracelet wearing idiot.

41 posted on 11/06/2001 7:36:29 AM PST by Zviadist
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To: LaBelleDameSansMerci

In the meantime, does anybody know when we're going to go after those who committed the attacks of September 11th?

LaBelle, I'm ashamed of you. That's so last week. Get with it!

42 posted on 11/06/2001 7:41:55 AM PST by Zviadist
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To: Anamensis
......but.......but.......What would Dr. Spock think?
43 posted on 11/06/2001 7:44:50 AM PST by DoctorMichael
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To: Zviadist; LaBelleDameSansMerci
In the meantime, does anybody know when we're going to go after those who committed the attacks of September 11th?

LaBelle, I'm ashamed of you. That's so last week. Get with it!

I've heard this line quite often on FR. I would ask you propose an alternative course of action to take out Al Queda instead of just bitching about how things are going.

44 posted on 11/06/2001 7:45:34 AM PST by dirtboy
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To: NewAmsterdam; LaBelleDameSansMerci

Wonder when we will start arming them....

The Marxist RAWA have already testified before Congress, to the dewy-eyed "right wing" Members who are ready to bring in the glorious Northern Alliance and elevate RAWA to some kind of favored NGO/government/Soros status.

45 posted on 11/06/2001 7:48:07 AM PST by Zviadist
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To: Zviadist
Oh, I expect things to be ugly in Afghanistan after all this is over...of course, things have been ugly there for the last several thousand years - the only question is will it be single-coyote or double-coyote ugly? Afghanistan is a nation in name only.
46 posted on 11/06/2001 7:51:25 AM PST by dirtboy
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To: Anamensis
but wait, if we "interfere" isn't that arrogance, colonialism, imperialism, oh, pick a word...

Nah. It's a violation of the Prime Directive, which hasn't been issued yet.

Shalom.

47 posted on 11/06/2001 8:07:18 AM PST by ArGee
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To: Anamensis
Amazing isn't it? These people tie up, beat and kick their children until they are as vicious as pit bulls. And these are the "poor Afghanis that we are bombing."

I read this last night and couldn't sleep. Not candidates for rehab, but for total annihilation.

48 posted on 11/06/2001 9:18:50 AM PST by PoisedWoman
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To: dirtboy
"...I would ask you propose an alternative course of action to take out Al Queda instead of just bitching about how things are going...."

Now let me get this straight: I tell everyone who will listen that under no circumstances should anyone ever disturb a grizzley cub or the wrath of god will descend upon them in the form of the mama grizzley.

You, however, have another strategy in mind and proceed to play with a darling little cubbie. The mother bear rips off you scalp, breaks your neck and gnaws on your femur.

You crawl back to me, skull in hand and demand that I stop bitching and propose an alternative course of action to take out the marauding grizzley bear???

I told you what not to do. I've been called everything from traitorto liberalfor that. I'm not required to recreate the universe in order to make it conform to the flawed world view of people who cannot conceive of the idea that military interference in ongoing foreign abortions (which is what Aghanistan is) is ALWAYS disasterous for the USA and, in particular, American conservatives--whether or not the nature of the disaster makes itself apparent immediately.

49 posted on 11/06/2001 9:31:38 AM PST by LaBelleDameSansMerci
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To: LaBelleDameSansMerci
You crawl back to me, skull in hand and demand that I stop bitching and propose an alternative course of action to take out the marauding grizzley bear???

Poor analogy. A better one would be that the grizzly has already attacked, and says it will attack again and again. A foreign country will not allow you to go in and hunt and kill the grizzly. What do you do?

50 posted on 11/06/2001 11:11:05 AM PST by dirtboy
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