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No regrets for choosing love over abortion
Indianapolis Star ^
| Jan 22, 2004
| J. Scofield
Posted on 01/22/2004 2:53:26 PM PST by redangus
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To: Harmless Teddy Bear
If people don't think adoption works, then they're not going to go through the process. I'll never understand why people will spend thousands on IVF when most adoptions are half the cost. Plus people need to get over having the perfect baby. I tried to help a friend get a baby adopted and it was very disillusioning to hear people's reasons for not adopting.
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posted on
01/22/2004 3:51:16 PM PST
by
cyborg
To: cyborg
Who were you using? I know of a local agency with a waiting list of over 80 couples who are waiting to adopt.
A few of them want "perfect babies". But the majority that we place are most imperfect. Everything from being cleft palate to blindness to missing limbs.
I even have a few who have requested children with Down Syndrome or some other handicap such as deafness.
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posted on
01/22/2004 4:01:55 PM PST
by
Harmless Teddy Bear
(...and thousands of cute furry kittens are trampling everything in their path)
To: Marie Antoinette
I'm sure if the children were asked, they would prefer the already developing brother or sister. I agree. I know if I'd been asked, and our family was poor, I would have felt that aborting my sibling was extremely cold-blooded and calculated, a sort of final solution for problem children. It would have scared the heck out of me. And I would have felt guilty and responsible if told that it was done for my sake, so that I could eat more...
Children can survive even extreme poverty and hardship and live on to become productive and inspiring members of society. No one survives an abortion.
To: Harmless Teddy Bear
This was back in the late 80s when my sister and I were in grade school. It was a government agency (go figure only a government agency would think cigar smoking is child abuse).
I would adopt. I almost became a surrogate mother for a friend who couldn't use her frozen embryos. I'm single though and can barely afford dog grooming! LOL
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posted on
01/22/2004 4:06:19 PM PST
by
cyborg
To: redangus
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posted on
01/22/2004 4:25:45 PM PST
by
BenLurkin
(Socialism is Slavery)
To: Harmless Teddy Bear
It depends what kind of babies. There are many, many black babies stuck in hospitals and being bounced around lousy foster care, because there are way more of them than there are adoptive parents. It sucks, but it's the truth. If I were a black woman with an unwanted pregnancy, I wouldn't be too eager to dump a baby into that system.
To: GovernmentShrinker
There are many, many black babies stuck in hospitals and being bounced around lousy foster care, because there are way more of them than there are adoptive parents. I doubt that. Black babies are not classified as "hard to place" until they reach a year old--or later. If social workers and agencies were open to adoption across racial lines, they could easily be adopted later too.
To: StillProud2BeFree
I am honored to be reading your eloquent post.
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posted on
01/22/2004 4:31:07 PM PST
by
OldFriend
(Always understand, even if you remain among the few)
To: jocon307
Khalil Gibran has much to offer. I used something from his book as part of my wedding ceremony.
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posted on
01/22/2004 4:32:45 PM PST
by
OldFriend
(Always understand, even if you remain among the few)
To: GovernmentShrinker
Are you suggesting that black women would be better off if they had abortions.
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posted on
01/22/2004 4:34:14 PM PST
by
OldFriend
(Always understand, even if you remain among the few)
To: condolinda
Children can survive even extreme poverty and hardship and live on to become productive and inspiring members of society. No one survives an abortion. Yes, but they can also grow up to be vicious gang members who kill and maim innocent people. Lots of people don't survive the acts of the mobs of never-wanted young men who are roaming the streets of our big cities.
To: Harmless Teddy Bear
If only the Catholic church had used all those gay, child molesting priest payoff millions to open even one orphanage.
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posted on
01/22/2004 4:34:56 PM PST
by
wtc911
(I would like at least to know his name)
To: OldFriend
A lot of them seem to think so, judging by the abortion statistics. I'm not in good position to overrule their judgement, as they presumably know more about their own lives and prospects than I do. Some of their babies would be better off never seeing the light of day -- there is way too much vicious abuse and neglect of children in this country, and the drug-infested, primarily black public housing projects and ghettos are where a disproportionate amount of it occurs. Until we can deal effectively with all the kids (of all races) who are already here and conscious, and being beaten/starved/tortured/raped, I'm not interested in expending resources trying to save early-stage fetuses who have no awareness of anything good or bad. And I think the abused kids would agree with me.
To: GovernmentShrinker
I hope you're wearing lead lined asbestos flame suits
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posted on
01/22/2004 4:42:37 PM PST
by
cyborg
To: redangus
Thank you very much for sharing this story. Perhaps it could save many innocent and completely helpless lives.
To: madprof98
Social worker special interests you got that right
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posted on
01/22/2004 4:44:12 PM PST
by
cyborg
To: madprof98
Lots of "ifs" involved. Many reach age one without being adopted because either their biological parents can't make up their minds whether they want them, or the father can't be identified or located to terminate his rights. And social worker/agency attitudes are part of the problem, but a bigger problem is that the vast majority of prospective adoptive parents want children of the same race as themselves, and there are way more financially and socially stable white, Asian, and Hispanic families, than black families.
To: GovernmentShrinker
You are a pathetic supporter of murdering innocent babies.
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posted on
01/22/2004 4:44:43 PM PST
by
OldFriend
(Always understand, even if you remain among the few)
To: cyborg
Always :-)
To: GovernmentShrinker
disagree completely... if PC special interests were removed then ever last baby would be adopted...kids don't care who they get for parents...since you brought it up, I've hardly met white parents with the attitude you cite. Most run into social worker problems first, they're afraid of the birth parents taking the child away or they have family members who are bigots.
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posted on
01/22/2004 4:47:50 PM PST
by
cyborg
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