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Kerry and my sister
Conway Daily Sun ^ | 10/14/04

Posted on 10/14/2004 1:22:48 PM PDT by David M. Brooks

— Many readers know me only as a conservative and are surprised to learn that I haven’t always been one. Seeing and hearing John Kerry several times a day is an almost constant reminder that I used to think quite differently when I worked for him back in 1972. I was more liberal then and Kerry was staging an unsuccessful run for congress in the fifth district of Massachusetts. Prior to that, he had been involved with the Vietnam Veterans Against the War, and I had been fighting city hall in Lowell, the district’s biggest city. His campaign people contacted me and I went to work for them. Some friends and relatives came into the campaign as well, including two of my sisters, Jane and Elaine. When my daughter, Annie, got married last August, they came up for the wedding and we reminisced about those days.

After Kerry lost the election, I had no more contact with him. I had sensed a lack of passion in him and had come to see him as an empty suit. But Elaine and Jane had become friendly with Kerry’s first wife, Julia, and their association with Kerry went on for a few years. Both got to know his family fairly well when they babysat his daughters. Elaine watched them sometimes at the three-unit apartment house we had purchased together and they played with my daughters there. Jane was younger and still lived with our parents in nearby Tewksbury. In the summer, she would sometimes accompany the Kerrys to Naushon Island, the private, seven-mile-long summer retreat of the Forbes family, and help with the children.

My family has always been politically active. We were born Boston-Irish-Catholic-Democrats and politics is innate. During the 1960s and ‘70s, though, the Democrat Party veered left while the McLaughlin family veered right. Not one of the nine of us still living belongs to the party any more, and I’m sure even my father would have resigned if he had lived to see what’s happened to that once-venerable party.

The day after the wedding last August, we were all sipping wine and talking politics on the porch of my mother’s house in Lovell when Jane told a Kerry story I hadn’t heard before. We had been taking turns relating just when it was that each of us had come to dislike the man the Democrats have since nominated for president. Jane described how she was spending a week on Naushon. Unaware that she was on a nearby porch and within earshot, Kerry was telling Julia that he didn’t want Jane to eat dinner with the family that evening. When Julia asked why, Kerry explained that some dinner guests he had invited didn’t approve of the help eating with the family.

As Jane was telling the story 30 years later, she was still angry and it showed clearly on her face. She’s fully as much of a spitfire now as she was at 15 when the incident occurred, and it had been years since I’d seen that I angry look only she can display. She has a way of pursing her lips and knitting her brow when she’s mad that is unique to her and I had to laugh. “It wasn’t funny,” she said—again with the angry expression. “I was mortified.”

“So what happened?” I asked, trying to be serious. Jane went on to explain that Julia had put her foot down and told her husband she refused to explain that Kerry wanted her to eat in another room. With that, our would-be president backed off and Jane ate with the family as she usually did. I could picture her sitting at the dinner table, looking at Kerry and doing the slow burn as only Jane can.

“John Kerry—courageous man of the people,” I said.
“That’s when I came to hate him,” said Jane.
“Understandable,” I answered.

Eventually, the Kerrys sold their house in Lowell when he went to law school at Boston College. Then he served as Assistant District Attorney in Middlesex County, Mass. I finished school and moved north to the mountains to teach. Elaine and Jane married and moved to the suburbs. Kerry then ran for Lieutenant Governor under Michael Dukakis, then U.S. Senator. Reading snippets of what he was up to in the Boston papers, I was gradually moving from left to right on the political spectrum. Kerry, obviously, remains on the left—the most liberal member of the Senate. Seeing and hearing him every day is a continuous affirmation that I moved in the right direction.

Tom McLaughlin is a history teacher who lives in Lovell, Maine. He can be reached at tommclaughlin@pivot.net.


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KEYWORDS: kerry; tommclaughlin
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To: Bahbah

My first thought was the African QUeen fits right in with his elitist attitude....IMOShe would have never allowed the "baby sitter" to mingle in the first place.

Thanks for the ping.


41 posted on 10/14/2004 7:48:59 PM PDT by hoosiermama (Pray without ceasing for our President and our nation.)
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To: tommclaughlin

I grew up in Connecticut, and know quite a few people from Mass. I passed your story on to my 12 y/o son, and *he* was horrified! Thanks again for being here.

best...


42 posted on 10/14/2004 9:13:41 PM PDT by bootless (Never Forget - And Never Again)
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To: Verginius Rufus

You are kidding me. I read Patterson's first book.


43 posted on 10/15/2004 6:34:09 AM PDT by KC_Conspirator (I am poster #48)
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To: dead

Good one! Can I steal it for my tag line?


44 posted on 10/15/2004 7:02:55 AM PDT by Carolinamom (This space reserved for GWB to sit beside me.)
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To: KC_Conspirator
The story is in there--I have the book in front of me.

Patterson continues with more of what Cranmer told him about that trip--he was flying Kerry and some of Kerry's staff to places in Cambodia and Vietnam during the POW/MIA discussions. Right after the "I never sail on anything less than 135 feet" comment, he says:

Their first stop was Phnom Penh, Cambodia, where Kerry's party was to have lunch with members of the Cambodian government. The crew, meanwhile, had brought along a pizza, purchased at the Kadena Air Base exchange, and stowed it on board for their only meal of what was to be a very long day. Amazingly, without asking, Kerry grabbed the pizza and started passing it around to his party, while the pilots flew their aircraft.

45 posted on 10/15/2004 8:13:21 AM PDT by Verginius Rufus
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To: Verginius Rufus; KC_Conspirator

Never heard of that story. I'll pass it along. What a prick.


46 posted on 10/16/2004 1:09:47 AM PDT by endthematrix (Bad news is good news for the Kerry campaign!)
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To: skikvt

Did you ever find out who the woman was?


47 posted on 10/16/2004 1:15:06 AM PDT by sweetiepiezer (We have to stop Kerry for our grandkids sake!!!!!!!! GO W)
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To: Verginius Rufus
It's to bad that a 527 didn't pick up this aspect of his personality and go with it. I think after the Cheney fiasco and his muffing the "strong woman" question, making sure to rub the Democrat party's nose in the overwhelming sense of entitlement by shown by Kerry/Edwards. If they want to play who's richer the Dems current party would win hands down. Reminding America that John Kerry thinks of them as the "little people", would just continue to pound nails into the coffin. Class warfare, bring it on, John Kerry shows more everyday that he thinks he's special and you're not.
48 posted on 10/16/2004 1:17:41 AM PDT by MKM1960
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To: AFPhys; prairiebreeze; onyx; Texasforever; CyberAnt; BigSkyFreeper; Tamsey; mrs tiggywinkle; ...
Unaware that she was on a nearby porch and within earshot, Kerry was telling Julia that he didn’t want Jane to eat dinner with the family that evening. When Julia asked why, Kerry explained that some dinner guests he had invited didn’t approve of the help eating with the family

I can just picture him saying this with his snob tone of voice

49 posted on 10/16/2004 1:18:45 AM PDT by Mo1 (Terri Kerry's remedy for arthritis - soak white raisins in gin for 2 weeks)
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To: stockpirate

I agree. He didn't want her to eat with the family before he did. Do you think this is when the flip flopping began?


50 posted on 10/16/2004 1:27:12 AM PDT by spotbust1 (Gun control is when you use both hands.)
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To: David M. Brooks

Sorry to nitpick--but the author used the term "once-venerable party". The Democratic Party is STILL venerable. He should have written "once-VENERATED."
I've seen this before; it's a common mistake, and an irritating one. Like "alot" for "a lot."

Otherwise--great article!


51 posted on 10/16/2004 1:27:15 AM PDT by Calico Cat (the simplest solution is usually the correct one)
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To: David M. Brooks
Kerry explained that some dinner guests he had invited didn’t approve of the help eating with the family.

This story fits the Kerry we all know and despise. I can just imagine him thinking of the other Vietnam Veterans Against the War as the "help." So, it was ok for those riff raff to throw their medals over the fence. But John Kerry? No way. Also, the way he treated his Secret Service detail on the ski slopes and talks down to questioners was classic Thurstyn Howell. He is an arrogant, self-important twit and I can't wait for Bush to cut him down to size on Nov 2nd.

52 posted on 10/16/2004 1:27:39 AM PDT by Casloy
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To: Mo1

This story sounds eerily like a story which was circulating around when Gore was running for office. Weird!


53 posted on 10/16/2004 1:32:15 AM PDT by CyberAnt (Election 2004: This election is for the SOUL OF AMERICA)
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To: Mo1
Can you imagine Dubya snubbing someone like that?

Anybody who is foolish enough to vote for a man with this level of arrogance deserves what they get.

In my humble opinion, this is a story that best describes the thought pattern of a liberal. They maintain a Utopian ideology that everyone but themselves must adhere to. A thought pattern that believes that anyone they consider beneath them should be grateful for whatever they decide is a sufficient lifestyle for someone they consider a "Commoner"

The Devil has a special place in hell for elitist like Kerry

54 posted on 10/16/2004 1:32:27 AM PDT by MJY1288
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To: MJY1288

Main Entry: so·cial·ism
Pronunciation: 'sO-sh&-"li-z&m
Function: noun
1 : any of various economic and political theories advocating collective or governmental ownership and administration of the means of production and distribution of goods
2 a : a system of society or group living in which there is no private property b : a system or condition of society in which the means of production are owned and controlled by the state
3 : a stage of society in Marxist theory transitional between capitalism and communism and distinguished by unequal distribution of goods and pay according to work done


55 posted on 10/16/2004 1:34:47 AM PDT by Mo1 (Terri Kerry's remedy for arthritis - soak white raisins in gin for 2 weeks)
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To: tommclaughlin

Welcome to FR! Don't worry, won't be seeing much of him after early November...


56 posted on 10/16/2004 1:39:34 AM PDT by EaglesUpForever
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To: Mo1

Socialism is actually a form of government that has never been successful. A liberals belief in a Utopian Society is a Brain disorder :-)


57 posted on 10/16/2004 1:41:25 AM PDT by MJY1288
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To: MJY1288

You are right .. I stand corrected *L*


58 posted on 10/16/2004 1:49:54 AM PDT by Mo1 (Terri Kerry's remedy for arthritis - soak white raisins in gin for 2 weeks)
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To: Mo1

Gnite Mo1, It's 4:50 AM here and I'm tuckered out :-)


59 posted on 10/16/2004 1:51:36 AM PDT by MJY1288
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To: Calico Cat
The Democratic Party is STILL venerable

Venereal, too....

60 posted on 10/16/2004 2:25:33 AM PDT by freebilly (Freebilly O'Reilly-- No Spin But Good Vibrations....)
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