Of course..he is because he doesn't see "it".... yet. I'm praying he does some day. My arguement to him would be.....if it is a contest to see who is worst by judging someone elses actions that would mean.... Stalin sinks, hitler stays since he didnt kill as many as stalin.... or Im sunk but my wife isn't cause she is nicer than me.... but Her aunt lucy is nicer than her..... and so on ... where is the line of demarcation? It is not our line to draw. It is God's and he drew it at the cross.
Very well put. Since we know that God wills all men to be saved, then it is literally ungodly for us to wish them damned. Yasser Arafat, among other dreadful examples, may be in Hell, but our job was to pray for his conversion.
One of the hardest things to "internalize" about Christianity, I think, is that *anyone* can be forgiven if he sincerely repents, no matter what he has done.