Posted on 12/21/2004 6:47:16 AM PST by LS
Perhaps the best way to desecularize Christmas is to walk away from all of the stores. De-commercialize Christmas. Make a holiday of spirit not material goods.
Yes, we get flyers about that in Sunday School every year :-). None of our kids likes peppermint very much, so we hang the candy canes on the Christmas tree for as long as they last. One year we put lights in the shrubbery outside and hung the candy canes there, and the neighbors ate them!
Good topic. Here are my thoughts:
I think change has to come in small, family-sized increments. Personally, here in Wisconsin (with the exception of Madison and Milwaukee) Christmas is still very Christ-oriented, but of course we have our malls all decked out and all that. I work part time in retail, so I play a small part in it as well. I doubt very much that we'll ever stem the tide of commercialism as related to Christmas. And being the good Capitalist I am, I hope not!
But...the Socialists didn't all wake up one morning, en mass and decide, "Hey! Let's ruin Christmas for the Christians!" They've been doing it in a thousand small ways for decades, chip-chip-chipping away at the foundation of the celebration and the Christian religion trough protests, pc-ness, petitions, Letters to the Editor, and suing and taking issues to court.
The only way to beat them is at their own game. Until Christians start handing over the dough, making websites, doing all the "grassroots" things that the socialists have done to undermine Christmas, we'll never get anywhere.
And personally? It may be just where I live, but so far the cops haven't shown up with a warrant for my arrest because I've refused to take down my Creche. Some of this is emotionalism due to the time of year, and articles on this subject in the newspapers and on TV sell advertising dollars...
Maybe we need to start the grassroots efforts in ernest in July when we're all rested after this hectic time of year? LOL!
I'd be much more worried if the latest polls were telling me that suddenly Christians were in the minority. Of course I don't want to be idle and watch the numbers plummet, but if 80-90% of us in the USA celebrate Christmas in a traditional manner, then all is not Doom and Gloom from my perspective. :)
Adding a cross to Christmas doesn't turn Christmas into Easter, unless you are really narrow-minded.
Come on. Even if you wanted to do that, you have to buy the normal stuff of life---food, some clothes, batteries, whatever. I think that "boycott" solutions won't work. I think the response has to be adoption of a symbol no one can miss.
Yah, I agree it has to come slow and incrementally, and the good news is that this year, Christians are finally saying, "enough!"
Once there were three trees on a hill. the tree on the left said: "I want to become a treasure chest and hold beautiful objects of great value". The tree on the right said: "I want to become a great sailing ship that will conquor oceans and carry great kings". The tree in the middle said: "I never want to be cut down. I want to keep growing so that when people look at me they will keep looking up and think of God".
One day three woodsman came. "I shall cut down this tree. Its wood will make for a fine treasue chest." Hooray, said the tree on the left. My dream has come true. "The wood of this tree is very hard, said the second woodsman. It will stand the waves of the ocean sea". My dream has also come true said the tree on the right. The tree in the middle was greatly saddend. It did not want to be cut down. "I do not have a use for this tree, but I will cut it down for stock. said the third woodsman.
When the tree on the left was taken to the carpenter's shop he was horrified when the carpenter made him into a feed box for animals in a barn. The tree on the right was also dismayed when he was made into a row boat. The middle tree was cut into planks and piled up. One night as the tree on the left was pondering his fate, a light shone from on high and a woman laid a baby in him that Three Kings came to worship. "I hold great treasure that even Kings kneel to and the world is brought great joy at the birth of this child" said the tree on the left. Some years later after being miserable at the daily task of being filled with smelly dead fish, the tree on the right was terrified by the storm that was tossing it. One of the men in the boat stood and said "peace". The storm stopped and the sea was made calm. "I carry a man who can still the ocean. He is greater than any king". Not long after that, the tree in the middle was startled when soldiers grabbed him and crossing his boards nailed a man to him with a sign above his head that read; "Jesus of Nazareth, King of the Jews".
I don't have any problem if someone says Happy Holiday instead of Merry Christmas. Someone saying Happy Solstice Day is another story though
You seemed to be advocating more than just "adding a cross", and agreed that the way to "save Christmas" was to "turn it into Easter". It seemed like a rather odd solution to me. If you're determined that it's a good idea, then carry on.
I think linking the two conceptually is critical, yes.
Okay.
The Gospels do that for us, when they describe the wise men giving Jesus gold for royalty, frankincense for divinity, and myrrh for suffering.
I started this about five years ago.
See, you're ahead of me already.
My children are young yet, but we have always emphasized to them that Christmas is about Jesus Christ, first and foremost. Like your children, they too will quickly remind anyone in their earshot who seems to have gone far afield, what Christmas is all about. They know "Jesus is the reason for the Season", and each year we do Advent candles, and Advent calendars with manger scenes on them, and we always have a birthday cake for Jesus on Christmas Eve, and we sing Happy Birthday to Him before we cut the cake. I hope they grow up with as deep a faith as your children have! Good job!
I like to be out front. :^}
I thought that was Dolly Parton's line. (Bad boy. Bad, bad boy).
The incarnation (birth) foreshadows the resurrection (rebirth), does it not?
You're on the right track and you'll have some good kids. I was picked on by my siblings, (I'm one of six), when my kids were young because they thought I was too serious, (I am not a serious guy).
Now that all our children are grown and mine were the least trouble, the best adjusted, and the most successful of the whole gang, they concede that I was right. Start them out on Jesus and when they get old enough let them decide.
I advise anyone who will listen, "Don't start your relationship with your kids on some fantasy or lie. Jesus is real Santa is a symbol." It is surprising how well even very young children understand the difference.
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