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The trouble with men
Spectator ^ | Issue: 15 October 2005 | Molly Watson

Posted on 10/13/2005 7:02:45 AM PDT by Eurotwit

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To: Eurotwit
As the father of 3 sons I know why these dumb broads are so clueless. As an example, when middle son was a junior in high school and went out with a girl the third time, she told him she wanted no more dates with him unless he started 'servicing' her. Starting with right then. Son drove her home never to date her again. He graduated OSU last year and now mostly runs a small design firm reporting only to the 2 partners.

The girl wants a winner of a guy with his head on right and wants to strike up the dating with him again. My son's attitude? Never happen. He says a great percentage of girls of quality have married their sweethearts this last year after college. What's really sad is youngest son is a sophomore in H.S. now and is really turned off by the high percentage of sluts at his school.

Bottom line is now that the feminists have their 'freedom' they don't much like the end results. What young man of quality wants a wife who serviced more meat by 21 than a Black Angus Restaurant serves on a busy weekend?

Nam Vet

181 posted on 10/13/2005 12:24:18 PM PDT by Nam Vet ("I was present at the birth of a political jihad.")
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To: freeeee

I agree with one point. We are up to our necks in the wreckage created by the 19th Amendment over the past several decades. That was a big mistake.

What amazes me about this whole debate is how men have turned their minds inside out. Men are AFRAID of females?

Geez, we gave Sheila the money, we gave her the vote, we gave her no-fault divorce, we gave her the court system, we gave her the law, and then when she uses it all to clobber us over the head, some of us start whining that now "I'M AFRAID OF HER"?

How can so many of us have had poop for brains for so long?

DA740


182 posted on 10/13/2005 12:27:14 PM PDT by DA740
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To: DA740
We are up to our necks in the wreckage created by the 19th Amendment

Therein lies a dilemma. According to the Declaration of Independence, governments derive any just powers from the consent of the governed. Women are governed, ergo, we must recognize their consent in the form of the vote. If I were a woman and I couldn't vote, I wouldn't consider myself governed, period.

But it just kills me what they've done with their vote.

First thing: Prohibition. Thanks, ladies!
Then they demanded all manners of socialism, from social security to medicare.
And gun control.
And of course, modern divorce laws.

The one common theme of all these things is love of the nanny state, and making government do things that the husbands they chased off aren't around to do anymore.

From soccer moms to security moms, to MADD, to The Million Moron March, woman have as a group done some real damage.

The need for security in women seems to be hard-wired, and concerns for liberty seem to consistently come in last place with them. I don't have a solution to this problem and I've given it a lot of thought.

The Second Amendment Sisters are a welcome departure to this trend, and I can't thank them enough. If there is a solution to the voting trends of women, it will probably be found by discovering what made them.

Men are AFRAID of females?

If you look closely, men aren't afraid of females themselves. If they were, they wouldn't pursue them at all.

Men are afraid of the combination of women and the legal system, so they aren't combining the two as often.

183 posted on 10/13/2005 12:48:14 PM PDT by freeeee ("Owning" property in the US just means you have one less landlord.)
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To: peter the great
Good link and it is fascinating

If you liked that link, try this one.

This one tends to upset a lot of the ladies and girly-men, so if you do not like rough-edged male chauvinism spawned as backlash to feminazi-think, do not click.

184 posted on 10/13/2005 12:56:32 PM PDT by Bon mots
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To: Bon mots

Hey Bon Mots,

Check this one out:

http://mirrorofthesoul.blogspot.com/


185 posted on 10/13/2005 1:07:20 PM PDT by Eurotwit (WI)
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To: freeeee
And them Molly Watson writes mean things about him.

Actually, the Molly Watsons call him immature and afraid of commitment. Yeah, I'm afraid of sticking my head in the blender too. Or maybe I'm just too smart to do that.

186 posted on 10/13/2005 1:30:33 PM PDT by Tall_Texan ("I regret that I have but one spine to give to my party.")
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To: Bon mots

A posture that american women suck isn't a helpful one, I think. It certainly won't attract many good women.

Negative, bitter people don't attract and keep quality people.

The mission isn't to find hundreds, thousands, or millions of women to share a life with. All you need to find is one. If the rest suck (or not), I don't see much utility in giving them much mind.


187 posted on 10/13/2005 1:33:14 PM PDT by HitmanLV
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To: HitmanNY

Once you set females free and give them money, trying to find a "good woman" is like trying to find a needle in a haystack.

Basically, in the world we men have created for ourselves with this feminist thing, there are NO MARRIAGEABLE FEMALES LEFT.

Best just construct a bench with five chicks, a different one for every weekend. Don't expect a happy marriage; we botched that completely when we gave girls money and freedom.

DA740


188 posted on 10/13/2005 1:46:25 PM PDT by DA740
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To: Eurotwit

Interesting statment in one of those blog postings:
"As I have said before, never bring a foreign woman to the US. Never. This should be the 11th commandment."


189 posted on 10/13/2005 1:49:05 PM PDT by Betis70 (Every generation needs a new revolution)
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To: HitmanNY; DA740
The mission isn't to find hundreds, thousands, or millions of women to share a life with. All you need to find is one. If the rest suck (or not), I don't see much utility in giving them much mind.

Exactly - words of wisdom. Like I said above, it isn't any individual's job to fix society.

And forget the scarcity mentality - that's the road to self-destruction. There are millions and millions of women out there - an overwhelming, limitless supply - and they aren't all bad. And on top of that, if American women really irritate you, there's a whole huge world out there with billions more.

They aren't quite as rare and precious as they like to pretend they are...LOL!

190 posted on 10/13/2005 1:54:24 PM PDT by Mr. Jeeves (Speaking several languages is an asset; keeping your mouth shut in one is priceless.)
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To: DA740
I am 37 and have enjoyed four long term romances in my life, with some dating in between. All were good and fulfilling to me, and three ended amicably and I continue now in the fourth.

All attractive and good women. All four were and are good women.

By your standard I found four needles in the haystack of life. The women I dated for spells and never developed a long term relationship with were not bad women, either. In some cases I didn't like them so much, in some cases they didn't like me so much. That's not to say any were notably bad just because we weren't to each other's taste.

Either I'm ridiculously lucky, or I am realistic, smart, savvy, and I know what I am doing.

Put on a happy face. You might meet a good, compatible woman that way.
191 posted on 10/13/2005 1:54:56 PM PDT by HitmanLV
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To: Betis70

I came over that blog a few months ago... Thought the guy had some interesting ideas, even though he was way to much of a misogynist (sp?) for my taste...

It seems like now, there is a guest writer who writes most of the entries...


192 posted on 10/13/2005 2:01:37 PM PDT by Eurotwit (WI)
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To: Mr. Jeeves

Exactly. I know that you know what I meant in my post but in the interest of clarity, I am with you and didn't suggest that there was only one woman out there to make any one man happy.

There are millions of good women out there, as you say. The balance of power does tip towards males later in the game, I think. Once a man realizes that it truly is a 'buyers' market from their perspective, the rest comes easy. But, a man must know how to be a man.

It's never been easier for a man to have an attractive romantic companion to his taste. He has to go out there and try to attract them, and then keep them happy, though.

I think a lot of men just don't want to take that chance.


193 posted on 10/13/2005 2:02:49 PM PDT by HitmanLV
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To: Eurotwit
will they do it by settling for a much younger companion who falls far short of the intellectually equal . . . .

This babe still hasn't learned.

194 posted on 10/13/2005 2:09:26 PM PDT by Age of Reason
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To: Mr. Jeeves; DA740
[Good, attractive women] aren't quite as rare and precious as they like to pretend they are...LOL!

That's the truth and every guy down on women/dating has to reread that line over and over.

There is no shortage of available, quality, and compatible women out there. If you find one, have a good time, and then she dumps you, of course that's a downer. But it's not like your lovelife is over. The best way to get over any woman is to make some quality time with another attractive, appealing woman.

Amazing how quickly that gal who burned you becomes the last thing on your mind. :-)

195 posted on 10/13/2005 2:11:32 PM PDT by HitmanLV
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To: HitmanNY

HitmanNY, if you ever come to Norway, I'll buy you a beer.


196 posted on 10/13/2005 2:12:32 PM PDT by Eurotwit (WI)
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To: Eurotwit

Next time I'm there, I'll drop you a Freepmail!

Actually that may not be a bad idea! I've been told more than once if ever in Europe, do a 2-day layover in Norway and follow it up with a 2-day layover in Iceland.

The guys who gave me that advice know my taste in women, and they warned I might make it an extended, open-ended layover!

Any wisdom in that speculation? :-)

PS - If ever in Las Vegas, drop me a line! The beer will be on me! :-)


197 posted on 10/13/2005 2:16:19 PM PDT by HitmanLV
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To: Eurotwit

>>Thought the guy had some interesting ideas, even though he was way to much of a misogynist (sp?) for my taste

AFter reading some more I see what you mean. Some interesting nuggest in there though.


198 posted on 10/13/2005 2:34:54 PM PDT by Betis70 (Every generation needs a new revolution)
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To: HitmanNY

hehe.

I have to say, after having lived for years in the States and in Australia, that Norwegian women are very high quality. Oddly perhaps, I feel that the feminism here is a lot more muted than it is in Australia for instance.

Perhaps, since feminism came really early here, the hostileness that accompanies it has largely dissipated, and women are not trying to act like men, the way I felt a lot of aussie women were. Perhaps, there is a positive story in there somewhere, in that the pendulum is bound to swing back... Off course, then there is the way they look.... Well, I had an Australian mate over last year, and his last comment before he jumpeded on the plane:

"I could never live in this place, and have a happy marriage. Ther is way too many beautiful girls around"

Anyhow, I really agree with your wiew. Starting to hate women is such a non-productive way to go about things. As well as morally wrong and un-christian. Be a man. In this day and age, women crave it more than ever.

BTW: I had my last date a few weeks ago, and we doubled dated with a friend of hers. The friend's boyfriend turned out to be a New Yorker, who was an avid conservative. He was quite amazed to meet a Norwegian who was even more right wing than him... We had a lot of fun the rest of the night, annoying some of the feminised leftists Norwegian guys :-)

BTW: He was a short fat loudmouth of a guy, with a stunner of a girlfriend....

Great guy, but I think that if he wasn't so much MALE as he was he would have never stood a chance with a girl like that.

Anyhow,

Have a good night.


199 posted on 10/13/2005 2:35:51 PM PDT by Eurotwit (WI)
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To: Tax-chick

When's the baby due, again? (I can't keep track of these things.)


200 posted on 10/13/2005 2:41:40 PM PDT by Marie (After 6 years of planning and working for the goal, I am now a TEXAN!!)
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