You're position is immoral, unethical, and decidedly un-Christian.
I notice you haven't responded to the terms of my little wager. What's the problem?
Personally I think I know what it is. If I were married to some moral reprobate who would allow me or my children to be tortured and murdered in order to prove some wrong headed and morally bankrupt 'principle' I'd be packing my bags, filing for divorce, and looking for someone who held rational views.
D**n well said.
It can be used as a tool for moral or immoral purposes.
Anyone arguing otherwise doesn't have a grasp of logic or reality.