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Death with Dignity?
Urban Tulsa Weekly ^ | 12/19/07 | Brian Ervin

Posted on 12/28/2007 12:12:40 PM PST by wagglebee

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To: wagglebee

Until I am in the position that I have terminal cancer and have constant pain 24/7, I cannot judge this story. I guess others have an easier time with pain and suffering.


21 posted on 12/28/2007 12:40:08 PM PST by napscoordinator
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To: gracesdad
I’m not going to argue with you about this. Neither of us will change the other’s mind. I have my opinion and you have yours. You think your opinion is the same as God’s. I don’t. End of story.

So, unlimited euthanasia would be perfectly acceptable to you.

22 posted on 12/28/2007 12:40:36 PM PST by wagglebee ("A political party cannot be all things to all people." -- Ronald Reagan, 3/1/75)
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To: massgopguy
1Cr 6:19 What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost [which is] in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?

1Cr 6:20 For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's.

I see nothing there denoting a greater penalty than for any other sin. Would those who see this as suicide = hell determine that a tattoo will also send one strait to hell by this verse?

23 posted on 12/28/2007 12:49:34 PM PST by MrEdd (Heck is the place where people who don't believe in Gosh think they aren't going.)
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To: gracesdad
I by no means advocate for tube feedings, ventilators, excessive antibiotic therapy for those elderly, and those chronically ill with terminal diseases.......

however, we must give HOPE to people that do have devastating diagnosises ...my own mother died a slow death because there was nothing that could be done, supposedly....

in retrospect, I wish the doctors had tried something just to give my mom a sliver of hope, dim as it was, instead of just "you're going to die" and that's it...

Hospice was of no help...their attitude was you can't have IV's, don't eat, don't drink, and they were stingy with the meds as well..

my mom got to the point of not wanting to do anything because what was the point....

If we had to do it all over again......*sigh*...

Hope is a wonderful thing....it can carry you thru a lot of bad times...

24 posted on 12/28/2007 12:49:49 PM PST by cherry
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To: cherry

“Hospice was of no help...their attitude was you can’t have IV’s, don’t eat, don’t drink, and they were stingy with the meds as well..”

Not to cause you further pain, but many hospices aren’t like this at all. The main hospice in my area is absolutely great by everything I’ve heard.


25 posted on 12/28/2007 12:52:37 PM PST by gracesdad
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To: wagglebee

“So, unlimited euthanasia would be perfectly acceptable to you.”

You enjoy putting words in people’s mouths, don’t you?

The Oregon law doesn’t allow for “unlimited” euthanasia.


26 posted on 12/28/2007 12:54:29 PM PST by gracesdad
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To: massgopguy

I see nothing there that indicates you automatically go to hell if you commit suicide.


27 posted on 12/28/2007 12:56:11 PM PST by gracesdad
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To: gracesdad

Okay then what limits do you think there should be?


28 posted on 12/28/2007 12:57:59 PM PST by wagglebee ("A political party cannot be all things to all people." -- Ronald Reagan, 3/1/75)
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To: MrEdd
I see nothing there denoting a greater penalty than for any other sin.

I believe the logic is that suicide is an unforgivable sin simply because you can not ask for forgiveness for it after it happens - which leaves you going into eternity in a state of sin.

It may not be a greater sin than stealing office supplies (I'm not sure that there are different levels of sin), but it is definitely an unforgiven one.

29 posted on 12/28/2007 1:04:18 PM PST by Retired COB (Still mad about Campaign Finance Reform)
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To: wagglebee

I said I don’t have a problem with the way Oregon handles it. That’s pretty much all I have to say.


30 posted on 12/28/2007 1:11:38 PM PST by gracesdad
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To: gracesdad

from CHRISTIAN APOLOGETICS & RESEARCH MINISTRY www.carm.org

I thought this article might answer some questions posed.

If a Christian Commits Suicide,
Is He Still Forgiven?

This might seem like a perplexing question, but it does have an answer. Though the Christian who has committed suicide has committed a grave sin, he is still forgiven. But, in order to understand why a Christian who commits suicide is forgiven, we first need to understand what salvation is and what it is based upon.
Salvation is the state of being saved from God’s judgment upon the sinner. The only way to be saved is to trust Jesus for the forgiveness of one’s sins (John 14:6, Acts 4:12). All who do not trust Jesus alone, by faith (Rom. 5:1; Rom. 6:23; Eph. 2:8-9) are not forgiven and go to hell when they die (Matt. 25:46; John 3:18). When Jesus forgives someone, He forgives all their sins and gives them eternal life and they shall never perish (John 10:28). He does not give them temporary eternal life — otherwise, it would not be eternal.
Salvation is not based upon what you do. In other words, you don’t have to obey any Law of God in order to become saved. This is because no one is saved by keeping the Law of God (Gal. 2:21; Rom. 3:24-28). But that does not mean that you can go and sin all you want. Rom. 6:1-3 expressly condemns such action. Instead, we are saved for the purpose of purity (1 Thess. 4:7). Our salvation is strictly by God’s: “By grace through faith you have been saved…” (Eph. 2:8). Other than acting by faith in trusting and accepting what Jesus did on the cross, you don’t do a thing (John 1:12-3) in order to become saved. Since you did not get your salvation by what you did, you can not lose it by what you do.
What about the unforgivable sin? Is that suicide? No. Suicide is not the unforgivable sin. Jesus spoke of the unforgivable sin in Matt. 12:22-32. The context is when the Pharisees accused Jesus of casting out demons by the power of the devil. Therefore, suicide is not the unforgivable sin.

Is repentance necessary for salvation?

This is a good question and the answer is yes — and no. Now, before you throw stones, hear me out. Repentance is a necessary result of the saving work of God, not the cause of salvation. If repentance brought salvation, then salvation is by works; or rather, the ceasing of bad works. That isn’t how it works. God grants repentance to the Christian (2 Tim. 2:25). The Christian then turns from his sin; that is, he stops sinning. He is able to repent because he is saved, not to get saved.
In 1 John 1:9 it says, “If we confess our sins He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” Confession of sin and its natural result of repentance are necessary elements of the Christian’s life. But, what about the sins that we do not know we commit? If we do not confess them and do not repent of them, are we still saved? Of course we are! Otherwise, we would be forced to confess and repent of every single sin we ever commit. In effect, we’d be back under the Law, living by a rule of absolute repentance of every detail lest you be damned. This is bondage, not freedom. Jesus said His yoke was light, not hard (Matt. 11:27-30.
So, repentance is not the cause of salvation, but it is a result of salvation. The believer repents from his sins upon trusting in Christ and thereafter, continues to repent of further sins that the Lord reveals to him.

Back to the suicide issue.

Suicide is, in effect, self-murder. The unfortunate thing about it is that the one who commits it cannot repent of it. The damage is permanently done. We can see in the Bible that murderers have been redeemed (Moses, David, etc.), but they had opportunities to confess their sins and repent. With suicide, the person does not. But that does not mean the person is lost. Jesus bore all that person’s sins, including suicide. If Jesus bore that person’s sins on the cross 2000 years ago, and if suicide was not covered, then the Christian was never saved in the first place and the one sin of suicide is able to undo the entire work of the cross of Christ. This cannot be. Jesus either saves completely or he does not.

Is suicide always wrong?

That I cannot answer because I cannot list every possible situation. But, it seems obvious that suicide is clearly wrong, though forgivable. However, there are general categories of suicide that we could briefly comment on:

Medically Assisted Suicide - I’ve never seen this as being acceptable. The doctor is supposed to save life, not destroy it. But, lately as destroying the lives of the unborn is more common place, destroying the lives of the sick has become the next logical step.
Suicide to prevent prolonged torture - Let’s say that someone was being tortured in an excruciating manner for an unbearably long period of time, is suicide an option? Perhaps. But if it were in this situation, why wouldn’t it be all right in the medically assisted context if the patient were also in excruciating pain for long periods of time? Quite honestly, I’m not sure how to answer that one.
Suicide due to depression - Of course, this is never a good reason for suicide. Seasons pass and so does depression. The one who is depressed needs to look to Jesus and get help. Depression is real and powerful and is best fought with help. Also, severe depression robs the mind of clear thinking. People in such states are in a real way, not in their right mind.
Suicide due to a chemical imbalance in the brain - The human brain is incredibly complex and the medical community is full of accounts of extraordinary behaviors by people whose “circuits got crossed.” I don’t see how a situation like this would make it justifiable. I think it simply would make it more explainable.
Accidental suicide - Sometimes people accidentally kill themselves. This could mean leaning over a balcony too far and falling to one’s death, or actually, purposefully taking a stupid risk like playing with a gun. Of course, with either, stupidity does not remove us from the grace of God. But then again, if it was an accident, it wouldn’t be suicide would it?

Conclusion

Is the Christian forgiven for suicide? Yes. But suicide is not an option. We do not have the right to take our own lives. That belongs to God.


31 posted on 12/28/2007 1:53:54 PM PST by groovychick (I have nothing to say for myself)
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To: wagglebee

Ozzie’s mind hasn’t been what it was before the Alamo incident.


32 posted on 12/28/2007 2:18:41 PM PST by mtbopfuyn (I think the border is kind of an artificial barrier - San Antonio councilwoman Patti Radle)
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To: gracesdad; wagglebee; OKIEDOC
The safegards? Zero. Oregon has no staff to investigate even the most egregious cases, no budget to pay for independent investigation, and no penalties for ANY physician action wth lethal outcome, if the physician can claim he acted in good faith," the lack of which is almost impossible to prove. The statistical analysis in their annual reports depends entirely on unverified death doctor self-reporting.

The only "protection" built into the law is that the death-dealing doctor is protected from any liability.

Take a look at this if you want (a href=http://www.vcil.org/news/main/oregon-theory-practice.html>a different view of Oregon's "suicide successes."

33 posted on 12/28/2007 2:32:26 PM PST by Mrs. Don-o
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To: wagglebee

I post this to you but it also concerns all the others who have posted to me doubting my sanity, theyÂ’re coming to take me a away he he haw haw ho ho I have a really good friend down at the health club, Jimmy is an avowed homosexual man and a workout friend. He is extremely smart and knowledgeable about many subjects. I state Jimmy’s lifestyle because many homosexuals have pulled away from fundamental Christianity. Also, Jimmy works with with my wife on various psychiatric studies she performs for the university. Sometimes we talk about various subjects and one of those is how he justifies his current lifestyle with his fundamentalist Christian upbringing. Jimmy likes to have this discussion because he knows that I disagree with his lifestyle. He tells me that he changed his beliefs and how he views Christianity when he met Bobby his partner. He states that he and Bobby believe in the new form of liberal Christianity taught at the All World Church of Science (Not real name but close) that started up several years ago. He tells me that the King James Bible I read is full of inaccuracies (Shiite actually) and is for mostly older narrow minded people truly ignorant of the religious beliefs now accepted in the world. I picked the following off the Internet for Jimmy and it closely resembles what I was taught as a boy in various Protestant churches about suicide. Of course Jimmy stated that the web site was the ranting of an ignorant hillbilly fundamentalist. I will post some of it here and you can make your own judgment: href=”http://www.behindthebadge.net/suicide/s92.html";>http://www.behindthebadge.net/suicide/s92.html Excerpt............... (1 Corinthians 6:19-20 NIV) [19] Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; [20] you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body. (1 Corinthians 3:16-17 NIV) [16] Don’t you know that you yourselves are Gods temple and that Gods Spirit lives in you? [17] If anyone destroys Gods temple, God will destroy him; for Gods temple is sacred, and you are that temple. (Psalm 39:4 NIV) Show me, O LORD, my lifes end and the number of my days; let me know how fleeting is my life. (Psalm 139:15-16 NIV) [15] My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place. When I was woven together in the depths of the earth, [16] your eyes saw my unformed body. All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be. “You might be asking what those two have to do with suicide, they don’t even talk about death. Yes they do. Both of them talk about God knowing how long your life will be. How does God know? He knows because it is up to Him to decide. When a person kills them self, they are playing god in their own life. They are taking the decision away from God. Now I ask you; is that a sin? Where exactly in the bible does it say that killing yourself is a sin? I know killing others is a sin, but I can’t find where it says killing yourself is. Killing someone else against their will is not the same as willingly giving up your own. I accepted Jesus (again) in my heart wed night, had a little peace until I read in the bible that God doesn’t take away problems, just gives hope and strength. Well, I am one giant problem and a thousand little ones. Hope and comfort just won’t cut it. Always had this fantasy of meeting God at the gate and convincing Him to just make me cease to exist, no heaven, no hell, just nothing. I found your website not too long ago, I was surfing the net for humor sites, wasting time until things were set to go. Then I found yours. Made me stop what I was doing. Isn’t that a riot? Bet you have helped a lot of people. Been reading the bible, but it just occurred to me that only murder of another person is a sin. I can’t find anywhere in the bible where is specifically says suicide is a sin, can you? Will wait for your answer. You said you accepted Christ again wed. evening. That is great, but what did you accept? Did you accept Him as Lord and Savior of your life? Or did you accept Him as genie in the sky who will take care of all your problems? You are right, God will not instantly do away with all your problems. Some He might do that with, but that is not what He offers us. He does offer hope and comfort, but much more than that. Part of your problem seems to be that you have no idea what life is suppose to be about. It is not about having fun and being comfortable, it is about having a relationship with God. Until you have that close relationship you will not be able to know what God’s purpose for your life is. I can’t tell you what it is, because I don’t know, but I do know that He has a purpose for you. Maybe that purpose is to clean toilets in the subway and witness to the homeless people there. Or maybe it is a much “nicer” purpose. I don’t know, but I know that if God did not have a purpose for your life, you would not take in another breath. See God is not powerless to kill you. He can take you life any time He wants to, so if you live another day, it is because God has ordained it. It is time you got your eyes off of yourself and onto Christ and see why He wants you on this earth. But make no mistake, you can claim the passages I quoted don’t mean anything, you can claim that God will welcome you into heaven even if you kill yourself, but you would only be fooling yourself. You cannot play God for a fool. He gave you life and it is up to Him when you die. If you make the decision with a clear mind to kill yourself, you have rejected Christ.” End of Excerpt......... Just the lowly opinions of a red state wannabe so FLAME AWAY if you so desire folks. Happy New Year to you and yours.


34 posted on 12/28/2007 2:51:51 PM PST by OKIEDOC (Kalifornia, a red state wannabe. I don't take Ex Lax I just read the New York Times.)
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To: onja
"I honestly don’t see the trouble with competent adults wanting to commit suicide in a non-painful way...only mentally competent, emotionally aware people.."

Just curious: why only the "emotionally aware"? So people somewhere on the austic/asperger's spectrum have no business killing themselves? Or people who would have a difficult time expressing their emotions (like, maybe 30% of us)? And do you know of any objective diagnostic tests proving a sufficient level of "emotional awareness" that would make it ethical to offer them a deliberate drug overdose?

And why in a "non-painful" way? What if somebody wanted to be beaten to death for artistic reasons, e.g. film noir?

35 posted on 12/28/2007 2:52:06 PM PST by Mrs. Don-o
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To: OKIEDOC

Would you mind reposting that with PARAGRAPHS because it hurts my eyes just looking at it.


36 posted on 12/28/2007 2:55:39 PM PST by wagglebee ("A political party cannot be all things to all people." -- Ronald Reagan, 3/1/75)
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To: onja

Catholic addition to the Bible? Verse, please.


37 posted on 12/28/2007 2:57:06 PM PST by Mrs. Don-o
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To: wagglebee
Interesting article. I'm glad I have a living will, to protect me from the well-intentioned but unwanted inrusions of others into my healthcare decisions. The Terry Schiavo (sp?) fiasco motivated me to go see my attorney and get that taken care of.

In some ways, this article reminds me of the arguement for gun control as a means of preventing crime. By shutting off one means of suicide, you just move the problem elsewhere. Like the Archie Bunker comment "would you feel better if they were pushed out of windows??"

I recall reading on the CDC web site that more than half of all gun-related deaths are suicides and the majority of those suicides are people aged 50 and over. Accordingly, I'd be willing to bet that many of the suicides are related to intractable health problems. By closing people out of a physician-assisted venue, where they could receive counseling and help, instead they just walk out into their garage and eat their pistol, which gets the job done.

Maybe physician-assisted suicide is a solution looking for a problem.....

38 posted on 12/28/2007 2:58:02 PM PST by Panzerfaust
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To: Mrs. Don-o

Various groups add concepts that the Bible does not explicitly say. Such as no alcohol, no dancing, et cetera. I’m thinking this is another such issue, where interpretations far exceed what the actual text declares.


39 posted on 12/28/2007 4:05:15 PM PST by onja ("The government of England is a limited mockery.") (France is a complete mockery.)
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To: Mrs. Don-o

Emotionally aware = someone who is by most accounts able to consciously make a decision. My aunt is bipolar, and cannot consciously think when she has episodes. Some people have such emotional disorders that they are not capable of making personal decisions. And yeah, I admit it would be hard to tell what point a person has enough self-awareness, but we do that for murderers, so I would think we could work out a similar system. Of course, err on the side of caution as much as possible.

And pain is generally not good. If a person, for whatever horrible reason, wants to commit suicide, it seems sort of reasonable to provide a easier way. It can’t be that pleasurable to die the way so many do. And if they have some horribly perverse love of pain, they can do it themselves.

Just a note: By no means do I support or look favorably upon suicide. I just don’t particularly see why people shouldn’t be able to choose to die in a decent manner. But I don’t care much about this issue, certainly not campaigning to institute such a system. Just expressing my own humble thoughts.


40 posted on 12/28/2007 4:19:43 PM PST by onja ("The government of England is a limited mockery.") (France was a complete mockery.)
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