And young men? They bear no responsibility???? (oh, hell, why not?)?????????!!!!!!!!!!
Sorry this happened and IMHO this is their business.
'Zactly.
Those young women didn't get pregnant all by themselves.
And young men? They bear no responsibility???? (oh, hell, why not?)?????????!!!!!!!!!!Consequences are different for different people. If a rich person wants to lie around by the pool and be dissolute, no harm no foul. They have the means to support themselves.
Poor people don't, so we think less of dissolute poor people because they are a drain on society and they throw their own lives away.
Likewise the consequences of sex are different for each sex. A women ends up with a baby to support, a man ends up with nothing. That's life, it's nature and it's a double standard. It's also reality.
Certainly the young man bears responsibility, but the cold hard fact is, WOMEN get pregnant and must carry a baby to term. It’s much easier for the boy to go scot free. I don’t like it, but it’s the truth. Of course, if we taught our kids silly old fashioned ideas like honor this would be less of an issue.
There was a time when social pressures kept more girls out of the back seat. You know, what’s really odd to me is that in this new era with good information on not getting pregnant and lots of options from pills to condoms to diaphragms, etc, we have MORE out of wedlock pregnancies. I suspect, but can’t prove, that because of abortion they feel that prevention is not worth the bother.
Yes, all bear responsibility in the long run, but the woman is the one who bears the child.