I hardly think your decision not to pay your sales/use tax is like the boston tea party (where they took goods and threw them in the water, not where they secretly avoided paying taxes on those goods).
In and of it self it may not be a big deal but each one of these taxes and laws is a straw. The story of the straw that broke the camels back is getting real, the same as for our founders. The tea tax was a straw, but it was the final straw.
Revolutions begin small. First they are private rebellions and then they become open. Would your really believe that throwing the tea in the water was the first step? Like you I am an honest person, and I struggle with this issue. The enemy knows we are law abiding and uses it against us.
Will you be law abiding right up to the point where they take everything from you? When does your revolution begin?