Not naive at all. I have stayed at many different kind of hotels (OK, not flophouses or whorehouses posing as hotels) and have never seen the kind of behavior on the part of the household staff that you describe.
Normally faggots or females would not be aware of what is going on around them in terms of that sort of behavior. BTW I wasn’t staying in flophouses or whorehouses..... Now this conversation is ended....go climb back into your world of naivete!