Yes. Behavior is malleable. One’s genetic code is not.
In other words, one can adapt behavior. One can decide not to do something anymore. One can’t stop being black, or green-eyed, or being the physical height they are.
And personally we are not just talking about behavior that is on the same level as having a cup of coffee in the morning or not. It is extremely high risk behavior. It is dangerous behavior. It is medically dangeros behavior. It is still behavior regarded my the large majority of people to be personally offensive and repulsive behavior.
It is not just the same as what car to drive, or what school to go to, or what shoes to wear. It is not neutral behavior. It is very negative behavior.
Being gay is a choice.
(At least when the word meant “happy!”)
I love seeing Old English poetry that uses the word.
Or in more modern times,
“Why do birds sing so gay?”
from “Why do Fools Fall in Love.”
Alas, which candidate to fall in love with?
Like some of my best friends say, “Gaily forward!”