I’m appalled. Anytime a partner of mine was mad, I was practically hiding under the bed. I hate when men get angry. It scares me half to death.
I have the same feeling when a woman gets mad. Or is sad, crying, upset -—whatever.
I guess I am old fashion.
It's not your "partners" fault - it's yours. All human beings get angry sometimes. You are describing a neurotic hypersensitivity and fear reaction that is inappropriate to a fairly normal occurance..
It's also something that can be used to manipulate the hell out of your "partner."
I had an ex-girlfriend who was always insisting I express my feelings. One time after she asked me to express my feelings, I told her I was feeling pretty hungry at the moment, and could she cook me something. We broke up shortly after that. Fate.
Wow, who are you dating?