To have my faith leader view me that way, just because of one piece of the way that God made me
God did not “make” you be a pervert, you chose that path...
This fellow apparently gets his identity from his appetites and not from his God.
You don't have a choice of your appetites, but you do, as a rational human being, have a choice of your actions. If I followed all of my food-related inclinations, I'd be dead already by appetite driven behaviors. Everyone is inherently screwed-up one way or another (that's what the ig "Original Sin" concept is all about) and we all face a daily battle between doing the easy thing and doing the right thing.
Everyone needs to restrain disordered desires. As a matter of public policy, an individual who really "can't" control his sexual behavior, shouldn't be allowed out in public without a sheriff's deputy.