I have two living mothers in law. So far I broke even. But trust me, there won’t be a third.
I only had 1.
My wife and I have been married 42 years.
We lost my mother-in-law in March 2012. She lived with us for 1-1/2 years before she died. She did not walk for her last 3 years.
She was married 2 times and did not particularly trust men. In her 2nd marriage she got a real winner.
I never had an argument with my mother-in-law. She was always my friend.
I cared for both of my wife’s parents and have no regrets about any of that.
Lost my mother last August. Still have my father. He is 87 and pretty tough, but loss of my mom was an awful blow. They were married 66 years.