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1 posted on 05/04/2013 10:06:29 PM PDT by grundle
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2 posted on 05/04/2013 10:10:40 PM PDT by GraceG
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Liberal heads will explode when exposed to this type of thinking.


3 posted on 05/04/2013 10:17:10 PM PDT by Dilbert San Diego
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Great advice for those intelligent enough to listen.


5 posted on 05/04/2013 10:21:19 PM PDT by Slyfox (The red face of shame is proof that the conscience is still operational.)
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As I have told both my son and daughter, “NEVER MARRY OUTSIDE YOUR READING GROUP”. I do not have a college degree but have had the self discipline to learn any thing I find of interest and or use.
I married a woman with a doctorate in education and it always amazes her how much I know about a multitude of subjects and topics.
I do have enough college credits in the hard sciences and engineering to get a bachelors degree but for some strange reason I kept refusing to take the politically correct classes to qualify for a graduation.
Just stubborn I guess.


6 posted on 05/04/2013 10:23:00 PM PDT by 5th MEB (Progressives in the open; --- FIRE FOR EFFECT!!)
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Here’s what nobody is telling you: Find a husband on campus before you graduate.

Here's some more:

You can not have it all. No one can. So make up your mind now about what's truly important to you.

You can marry a man or a boy. A man will take care of you. You will take care of the boy.

Men and women are different. You can either understand and enjoy the difference, or deny it and be miserable.

Raising a family is best done in young adulthood. Planning to do so in middle age is a selfish fantasy.

Of course, there's much more. But those set the tone.

8 posted on 05/04/2013 10:55:57 PM PDT by DakotaGator (Weep for the lost Republic! And keep your powder dry!!)
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In the 1980’s, I was slaving away, sort of, as a bartender in a very hip, pricey Washington DC restaurant with other pretty, college-educated, young-but-aging, smarty-pants women who waited the wobbly, freesia’d, linen’d tables for tips while pursuing important artsy, intellectual interests by day. We were cool, smart, attractive and complete losers in the shark-infested, DC dating pool. Pretty faces, broken hearts, all of us. Over and over again.

One night, I noticed that the ordinary women in that hot restaurant kitchen that we all avoided, the women inventing new, seductive feasts every evening, were all happily married. Married to really nice men. Handsome, manly men. Could it be true? The way to a man’s heart...?

I started quizzing these patient women about how they dressed these delicious salads I’d been enjoying. What’s the sauce on the salmon? How did you prepare these steaks?

It’s true. Once I began cooking for the men in my life, anathema to most women of my stupid demographic, the long desired pronouncements of love and offers of marriage materialized. I enjoyed cooking and realized its primal value to myself and men. Yum!

Education occurs anywhere, everywhere. Screw college. Be nice and cook well.


9 posted on 05/04/2013 10:55:59 PM PDT by hillsborofox (If we believe absurdities, we shall commit atrocities. Voltaire)
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I thought I heard an explosion somewhere.

/johnny

10 posted on 05/04/2013 11:03:07 PM PDT by JRandomFreeper (Gone Galt)
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these poor leftists. the foolishness literally oozes from every line of this arrogant letter. to talk about something as sacred and serious as marriage like it’s some sort of simple game to be played. to talk about a college education in the worthless ivy league as making one smarter or better than anyone else.

as far as marriage goes, these people have zero concept of what God’s marriage really entails. sadly, even when they marry, i don’t think they are really “married.” married as in having submerged one’s individuality to become one person. maybe that’s why divorce is so easy for them.


12 posted on 05/04/2013 11:07:50 PM PDT by dadfly
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Shared values correlates with successful marriages more than share intelligence.

That is why marrying someone who attends your church is a good option.


18 posted on 05/04/2013 11:19:46 PM PDT by garjog (Heroes Died. Obama Lied.)
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Not sure if most Freepers realize it, but “Patton” is a Princeton legacy name. There is a “Patton Hall” at Princeton.

That the authoress’s two sons would matriculate at Princeton was probably a given.

However, in my view, she seems a bit stuck on herself, Princeton women, and Princeton men. Her sons, for instance.... were they admitted to Princeton based on their grades and other qualifications — or based on their surname?

If Princeton is so great, why does it employ — and perennially permit to pollute young minds — the following idiots? Cornel West, Paul Krugman, and Peter Singer.


23 posted on 05/04/2013 11:40:37 PM PDT by man_in_tx (Islam is a Hate Crime. (Blowback: Faithfully farting towards Mecca five times daily!))
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Friday morning my 3.5 year old daughter was all dejected and said she didn't want to go to Catholic daycare.

Later my wife told me she said: "Max loves someone else."


Deborah and Maximilian

26 posted on 05/05/2013 12:04:26 AM PDT by Berlin_Freeper
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Totally bought into the Feminism trap. Waited until early 30’s to marry and try to have children. You know how they told us we coud have kids into our 40’s? Well, some of us couldn’t. I couldn’t be happier with the one child I was allowed to have, but couldn’t have any more, which upset my ‘perfectly planned’ life. Girls, start having your children in your 20’s. Life doesn’t always work out the way you, or the Famous Feminists say it will. I am happily married with a wonderful son and daughter-in-law, but I would have cherished another child.


28 posted on 05/05/2013 12:31:45 AM PDT by originalbuckeye (Never yield to force; never yield to the apparently overwhelming might of the enemy)
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Yeah, go right ahead and marry a bunch of effete pseudo-intellectual dimwits who couldn't pour pi$$ out of their own Bruno Maglis.

Scott Adams had it right-marry an engineer. They're happy to actually have sex and they can fix stuff.

30 posted on 05/05/2013 3:27:40 AM PDT by MuttTheHoople (Nothing is more savage and brutal than justifiably angry Americans. Don’t believe me? Ask the Germa)
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And I say again — you will never again be surrounded by this concentration of men who are worthy of you.

And if that isn't the most arrogant damned comment I've ever heard I don't know what it.

32 posted on 05/05/2013 3:53:34 AM PDT by 0.E.O
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All brain and no heart and no soul?


36 posted on 05/05/2013 4:52:36 AM PDT by P.O.E. (Pray for America)
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“But ultimately, it will frustrate you to be with a man who just isn’t as smart as you.”

I smell pride in that statement and a rather “Princetonian” style condescension. Compatibilities in terms of talents, interests, and spiritual outlooks are what is more important. While a reasonable match in IQ’s might be useful, the best relationships happen when one person’s strengths complement another’s weaknesses and vice-versa and when there is real love that cause both to show grace in the face of each other’s weaknesses.

An intelligent woman may do well with a WISE husband who, while not being as intelligent at the wife, is nevertheless competent in his profession and self assured. Such a man may not be able to program a computer like his wife but he may find the plug not plugged in when the wife is in a tizzy as to why the monitor won’t turn on.


37 posted on 05/05/2013 4:54:35 AM PDT by mdmathis6 (Rest assured, Mankind is loved....both completely and severely!)
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actually, far better advice to these young Princeton women would be.... do NOT marry a Princeton man!!

I agree with the message that “having it all” as career women has led many women to approach middle age with no children or a lot of frustration.

However, this idea that an intelligent woman (or man) should only marry someone of very equivalent “book smart” IQ is just silly, and wrong.

So many other qualities are more important than whether someone is a “Princeton man” or whatever.... pleaaaasssee.

Although I suppose it is true that if one’s values put that sort of thing first, that the more important thing in life is whether hubby or wifey is “Princeton material” then ofc it follows that one needs to marry that kind.

Seems like a very foolish, clubby way to approach life....


39 posted on 05/05/2013 5:01:13 AM PDT by Enchante
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I would tell them, “ If you are really smart, go to MIT.”


40 posted on 05/05/2013 5:42:27 AM PDT by Citizen Tom Paine (An old sailor sends)
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“Simply put, there is a very limited population of men who are as smart or smarter than we are.”

Oh yuck!

41 posted on 05/05/2013 5:46:49 AM PDT by pepperdog ( I still get a thrill up my leg when spell check doesn't recognize the name/word Obama!)
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But ultimately, it will frustrate you to be with a man who just isn’t as smart as you.

This may be true; but if the man is able to make killer pizza pie and a consistently delicious chocolate chip cookie, and is available to lift heavy objects and give free hair cuts, well then his intellectual shortcomings might be tolerated?

43 posted on 05/05/2013 6:19:27 AM PDT by don-o (He will not share His glory, and He will not be mocked! Blessed be the Name of the Lord forever!)
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