Every soul born of woman has been born from above. That process begins at conception. Now I cannot judge the condition of Nancy's soul. What I can discern is her motivations/actions are not from the Heavenly Father. And apparently the vicar of Christ is powerless to keep her from tainting his flock.
When Jesus said to the scholarly Nicodemus, “you must be born-again, it’s very clear he was not speaking of physical birth, but spiritual birth. Man is conceived “in iniquity” according to the word of God, born in sin; spiritually “dead in trespasses and sin,” hence he is born into this world spiritually dead. A new birth, a spiritual birth is essential to understanding the things of God, which the word of God says, “the natural man does not understand,” because they are “spiritually discerned.” Only those who have placed a genuine faith in the Christ of Scripture have been “born again.”