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NJ Diner Leaves Anti-Gay 'Tip' for Lesbian Waitress
ABC News ^ | 11/15/13 | Anthony Castellano

Posted on 11/15/2013 10:18:11 AM PST by Slings and Arrows

A New Jersey waitress and former Marine says she was "offended" after a customer left an anti-gay note on a check in place of a tip because she is a lesbian.

Dayna Morales, a server at Gallop Asian Bistro in Bridgewater, N.J., said a family dining at the restaurant Wednesday night skipped the tip on their $93.55 bill and scribbled an explanation why.

"It says, 'I'm sorry but I cannot tip because I do not agree with your lifestyle and how you live your life,'" Morales told ABC News station WABC-TV Thursday.

(Excerpt) Read more at gma.yahoo.com ...


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Extended News; US: New Jersey
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1 posted on 11/15/2013 10:18:11 AM PST by Slings and Arrows
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To: Slings and Arrows

What was the tip? Stay out of the bushes?


2 posted on 11/15/2013 10:19:38 AM PST by Hotlanta Mike ("Governing a great nation is like cooking a small fish - too much handling will spoil it." Lao Tzu)
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To: Slings and Arrows

How did the family know?
This reminds me of the guy from a week or two ago who supposedly wrote something racist for the tip but it turned out it was a takeout order and the handwriting didn’t match.


3 posted on 11/15/2013 10:20:24 AM PST by Lx (Do you like it? Do you like it, Scott? I call it, "Mr. & Mrs. Tenorman Chili.")
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To: Slings and Arrows

Given the recent spate of “servers gone bad,” I’m definitely skeptical as well.

I often leave cash tips for my servers, and I’ll write “Cash” on the tip line for the server to prevent these sorts of shenanigans if they think my wife or I were being particularly painful.

Besides, how did this couple know the server was a lesbian? If you’re in my face about your sexual proclivities, I’d likely think twice about my feelings for you as well.


4 posted on 11/15/2013 10:21:10 AM PST by rarestia (It's time to water the Tree of Liberty.)
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To: Slings and Arrows
Is that Chaz's brother?


5 posted on 11/15/2013 10:21:18 AM PST by TexasCajun
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To: rarestia

I use only cash when I dine out.


6 posted on 11/15/2013 10:22:01 AM PST by Antihero101607
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To: Hotlanta Mike

There’s two sides to every story. There has to be a reason she won’t go after them. Maybe she touched their kids the wrong way...(she shouldn’t be touching them at all)...or said something promoting her lifestyle...


7 posted on 11/15/2013 10:22:15 AM PST by Sacajaweau
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To: TexasCajun

I’ll never understand it. I thought the point of being a Lesbian is that you are attracted to women, but most of these “womyn” look more masculine than most guys.

It’s just so confusing.


8 posted on 11/15/2013 10:22:28 AM PST by dfwgator (Fire Muschamp.)
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To: Slings and Arrows

Was the tip on the third race at Pimleco?


9 posted on 11/15/2013 10:22:43 AM PST by righttackle44 (Take scalps. Leave the bodies as a warning.)
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To: TexasCajun
Is that Chaz's brother?

Rachel Maddow Mk II.

10 posted on 11/15/2013 10:22:43 AM PST by Slings and Arrows (You can't have Ingsoc without an Emmanuel Goldstein.)
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To: Slings and Arrows

Here’s an idea. The next time somebody writes you a mean note, ball it up, throw it away, and get on with your life like the rest of us do.


11 posted on 11/15/2013 10:23:00 AM PST by Old North State
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To: Slings and Arrows

Must’ve been the huge “I’m Gay” sign she was wearing around her neck.......hmmmmm.........


12 posted on 11/15/2013 10:23:09 AM PST by cincinnati65
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To: TexasCajun

13 posted on 11/15/2013 10:23:20 AM PST by TexasCajun
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To: Hotlanta Mike

Dumb Diner if the story is true.

Never PO the Wait Staff before your food arrives.

But this story sounds toooo much like the other one.


14 posted on 11/15/2013 10:23:43 AM PST by PeteB570 ( Islam is the sea in which the Terrorist Shark swims. The deeper the sea the larger the shark.)
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To: Slings and Arrows

Why is this even a story?


15 posted on 11/15/2013 10:24:16 AM PST by jaydubya2
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To: TexasCajun

No, they took Miley Virus, put a Schrader valve in her @ss, and filled her with helium for the Macy’s parade.


16 posted on 11/15/2013 10:25:03 AM PST by nascarnation (Wish everyone you see a "Gay Kwanzaa")
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To: Old North State

Exactly...


17 posted on 11/15/2013 10:25:05 AM PST by jaydubya2
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To: TexasCajun

Seen better heads on boils.


18 posted on 11/15/2013 10:25:24 AM PST by Gamecock (If you have to be One,be a Big Red One.)
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To: Gamecock

I suspect if she dolled herself up, and grew out her hair, she wouldn’t be all that unattractive.


19 posted on 11/15/2013 10:26:12 AM PST by dfwgator (Fire Muschamp.)
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To: Slings and Arrows

I am skeptical too. Another hoax, likely.


20 posted on 11/15/2013 10:26:28 AM PST by darkangel82
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To: Lx

I was thinking that maybe they were offended by her publicly revealing her sexual proclivities at a family restaurant.

I don’t happen to think a person’s tip should be based on their orientation. If you don’t like the idea of a lesbian serving you, then ask for another waitress, don’t let her do all the work and then stiff her on the check.


21 posted on 11/15/2013 10:27:38 AM PST by CharlesWayneCT
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To: Slings and Arrows
Yep. Evil, rotten, stupid, bigoted conservatives, at it again.

Jeez, I'm surprised that the diner was a) literate enough to spell the note correctly and b) took the time to write a note, since he was likely in a hurry to get home and beat his wife abuse his domestic partner and kick his dog.

/sarc obviously.

22 posted on 11/15/2013 10:28:28 AM PST by wbill
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To: TexasCajun

pathetic creatures...


23 posted on 11/15/2013 10:30:45 AM PST by pgkdan
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this is really becoming a habit..ya think???

Blacks
Gay’s
what is next????


24 posted on 11/15/2013 10:31:05 AM PST by haircutter
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To: Slings and Arrows

I do not agree with their life style or the crap they throw in our face about gay..I do however think the person that did that about the tip should have ask for another server instead of writing the note..To me that person was an ass and just trying to get out of a tip..


25 posted on 11/15/2013 10:31:30 AM PST by PLD
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To: TexasCajun

How did they know that guy was gay?


26 posted on 11/15/2013 10:31:31 AM PST by pgkdan
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To: Slings and Arrows

I don’t blame her for being upset... if she gave good waitress service. If she was in his face (so to speak) about her life style, that’s not good service.

But, if she was efficient and polite, she deserves a tip, because in this country restaurant wages are so low that it is presumed tips will make up part of the income.

That said, there are selfish customers who don’t tip, regardless of the excuse. Everyone who’s waited has been stiffed.


27 posted on 11/15/2013 10:31:39 AM PST by Pearls Before Swine
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To: Hotlanta Mike

Usually when I see something such as this I expect it to turn out to be something “manufactured” by the supposed “victim”; and usually that expectation is met. At least this one was smart enough to blank out the diner’s data from the receipt -so nobody can come forth and point out the truth.

When we were younger my wife worked as a waitress to help us make ends meet and she relied on tips. My practice since then has been when we go out for dinner is to pay the bill by credit card and leave the generous tip in cash. Servers appreciate that.


28 posted on 11/15/2013 10:32:01 AM PST by House Atreides ( D)
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To: Hotlanta Mike

Sticks and stones, honey. Words may never hurt us.


29 posted on 11/15/2013 10:32:47 AM PST by AD from SpringBay (http://jonah2eight.blogspot.com/)
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To: Slings and Arrows
Fake hate crime. Add it to the list.
30 posted on 11/15/2013 10:33:07 AM PST by Jim Noble (When strong, avoid them. Attack their weaknesses. Emerge to their surprise.)
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To: Pearls Before Swine

tipping is optional as it should be

If you think your employee isn’t making enough, pay them more, it is simple.

“Selfish customers who don’t tip” (who pay exactly what they owe) ... I suppose the business owner who doesn’t pay enough aren’t selfish at all.


31 posted on 11/15/2013 10:33:42 AM PST by GeronL (Extra Large Cheesy Over-Stuffed Hobbit)
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To: Slings and Arrows

Welcome to a month ago.


33 posted on 11/15/2013 10:34:06 AM PST by AppyPappy (Obama: What did I not know and when did I not know it?)
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To: Slings and Arrows

If people can tell your a lesbian, then maybe you are doing something wrong


34 posted on 11/15/2013 10:34:46 AM PST by GeronL (Extra Large Cheesy Over-Stuffed Hobbit)
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To: TexasCajun

Is it just me but they all seem to share a similar haircut style.


35 posted on 11/15/2013 10:35:38 AM PST by Patriot Babe
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To: Lx
How did the family know?

Exactly. I smell setup.

Unless the waitress "came out" in front of the family and made it a point to tell them she was a lesbian (which is highly unlikely) then this can only BE a setup designed to generate sympathy.

36 posted on 11/15/2013 10:35:49 AM PST by usconservative (When The Ballot Box No Longer Counts, The Ammunition Box Does. (What's In Your Ammo Box?))
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To: Slings and Arrows

I think this is the latest fad in phony hate crimes. It’s perfect really. It doesn’t require the defacing of one’s body or property. The so called perps are never identified and can never defend themselves against the accusation. And most people never question the veracity of the story, so the server gets to create hatred toward the villains while blaming them.
But are receipt required to be turned in at the end of the day? Don’t those receipts have to go to the office? Has anyone noticed the server always has the receipt and the manager is saying he saw the note too? How could she have taken the store’s copy of the receipt home and uploaded it to the web?
So the current tally is three: two crimes against gays and one note that allegedly featured a racial slur.


37 posted on 11/15/2013 10:35:57 AM PST by Wiser now (Socialism does not eliminate poverty, it guarantees it.)
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To: Slings and Arrows
Worse than making the server angry is to make the airline ticket counter person angry because the flights are late. I personally have witnessed these folks deliberately take the checked baggage of some A$$HAT customer and look at his ticket destination while muttering: "Hmmmmm going to Cleveland? I'll send his bags to MUMBAI." And then do so! Granted this was the 1970s when I saw this done while working concourse security (in-house, not TSA).
38 posted on 11/15/2013 10:36:37 AM PST by ExSoldier (Stand up and be counted... OR LINE UP AND BE NUMBERED...)
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To: Old North State

Revolutionary idea!


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40 posted on 11/15/2013 10:38:26 AM PST by DJ MacWoW (The Fed Gov is not one ring to rule them all)
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To: pgkdan

Well it could be true we have some pretty stupid idiots n this world lately..with the stupid leader comes ignorant people..


41 posted on 11/15/2013 10:38:32 AM PST by PLD
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To: AppyPappy

Different incident.


42 posted on 11/15/2013 10:43:58 AM PST by Slings and Arrows (You can't have Ingsoc without an Emmanuel Goldstein.)
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To: pgkdan

It just shows how little “homophobia” and “racism” there truly is, since the “victims” have to make up incidents.


43 posted on 11/15/2013 10:47:49 AM PST by Nea Wood (When life gets too hard to stand, kneel.)
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To: Patriot Babe

No it is not just you. I have noticed the same high and tight haircut on other mean faced females. I wish I could post a picture of Gina McCarthy, the mean faced head of the EPA.


44 posted on 11/15/2013 10:47:57 AM PST by forgotten man
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To: Slings and Arrows
It really pi$$es me off when the media is so quick to inform us that some member of the permanently aggrieved freak class served in the military when they can't be bothered to get off their collective a$$es and get to the bottom of what happened in Benghazi.
45 posted on 11/15/2013 10:49:13 AM PST by liberalh8ter (The only difference between flash mob 'urban yutes' and U.S. politicians is the hoodies.)
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To: Antihero101607

The overwhelming majority of the time, I’m the same way. I’ve had my card number stolen twice. High-end establishments often elicit a card swipe since I don’t prefer to have more than $200 cash on my person.


46 posted on 11/15/2013 10:51:26 AM PST by rarestia (It's time to water the Tree of Liberty.)
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To: darkangel82
Why, not? Bogus harassment claims are all the rage among the designated victims groups.

Heck, the black Red Lobster waitress got a $10,000 bonus for her abusive-note-instead-of-tip hoax.

And the media LOVES to report em.

47 posted on 11/15/2013 10:56:11 AM PST by skeeter
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To: dfwgator

You can’t explain insanity.


48 posted on 11/15/2013 10:58:49 AM PST by Catmom (We're all gonna get the punishment only some of us deserve.)
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To: TexasCajun

Amazing resemblance. Wonder if that girl was warped and damaged like Chastity Bono was when she was raped by her mother’s Lesbian “friend” when she was 11.

That worldview of children is warped beyond Reason-—destroying Trust in parents and the “family”. Shame.

She would “ruin” my appetite-—really-—if she was handling my food.


49 posted on 11/15/2013 10:59:00 AM PST by savagesusie (Right Reason According to Nature = Just Law)
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To: Slings and Arrows
another "note" ....right....

here's a clue.....we could care less what you are or what you do.....

50 posted on 11/15/2013 10:59:41 AM PST by cherry (.in the time of universal deceit, telling the truth is revolutionary.....)
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