Posted on 03/11/2018 1:50:28 AM PST by Colonel Kangaroo
On the other hand, I told a guy in a conference in front of everyone not to call me “hon.” It is condescending and I won’t have it.
Hey, Obama called a reporter “Sweetie” and that was okay, right?
Yeah
Strong woman. Can’t take being called honey. Got it. Strong. Right.
No in Kentucky as in many parts of the south honey is used when you don’t know someone’s name. (Or can’t remember it). It is genderless. (grammatically)
The guy is a typical narcissist who instead of appreciating some free press is compelled to denigrate her. He is an ass.
IMO, whether or not this guy is a jerk, calling a woman “honey” is not a hanging offense.
Feminism has certainly come a long way since the 60’s. I suspect in a few decades those male babies allowed to survive abortion will be surgically neutered at birth. They will probably be making artificial sperm that will be implanted while under anesthesia so the patient will not have to undergo the humiliation of intercourse. And the neutered males will be muscle bound pajama boys that do all the work.
Big, hairy, stinking deal.
The poor little snowflakes are all aghast.
In the overall scheme of things that make the world go 'round, exactly where does this fall?
I'm tired of hearing from the feminazi's about their delicate feelings.
Just go the hell away.
Or find a man and get married...and shut up.
“On the other hand, I told a guy in a conference in front of everyone not to call me “hon.” It is condescending and I won’t have it.”
Was this guy being condescending towards you or was it simply the way he addressed women? Was he an older man? Frankly unless this guy was a known letch it would have been far more appropriate to confront him in private and simply tell him to not refer to you by anything other than your name proceeded by your preferred gender tag.
You may believe you looked strong by what you did but in reality you more then likely humiliated a man who meant no disrespect to you. In doing that you made yourself look nasty and a bit of a bit*h.
Btw, NJ where I used to live is known as the State with the most Diners. To this day you can walk in anyone of them and expect to be greeted by a waitress using the “Hon” word to both men and women.
I have never heard anyone complain.
You best not wander any further east or south
I love it when the Waffle House waitresses call me “honey”. If that’s being mistreated, I’ll take a second helping scattered, covered and smothered.
Hah! See my comment at #30.
Oh, the humanity!!!! Oh, the horror!!! Oh, the Leftists BS!!!
Good thing she didn’t ask him what’s for breakfast, he would’ve responded “Nut & Honey”
It’s fine in a restaurant, it’s not fine in a business meeting
No, wrong. It is not whether or not it is appropriate. That is determined by whomever felt slighted. It was the way the woman who in a DESPERATE attempt to look tough could have handled the incident but instead came off as a bi*ch.
Well he came across as a doofus and I came across as appropriate.
Perhaps in your eyes. Having spent years in the corporate world I can tell you that by publicly humiliating another employee you have made no friends and have lost respect among others who witnessed your overhyped “outrage”
He called you “hon”.......really?
He was not a fellow employee, he was interviewing for a job as youth director at our church and I am a lawyer volunteering on the pastor parish relations committee.
It doesn’t matter where it occurred. It’s the way you handled it which is the issue. It’s not as if he grabbed your butt or told you you had great boobs.
I would bet large and give long odds that he never gave what he said a second thought because like those waitresses in NJ it is not meant to be disrespectful.
Isn’t it all about “intent”?
Frankly you sound like the sort who would run to HR if you walked by the water cooler and overhead a guy telling another guy a dirty joke which included women.
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