You really must read Rev 12 again.
A simple question is this: Who gets caught up to the throne and who goes into the wilderness?
You can specualte as day is long, the fact remains, the woman is identified as the physiological mother of Christ.
Christ ascends to heaven and is seated at the right hand of the Father. Mary goes to fight Satan with her children (the Church) while out of his reach herself, equipped with wings, till Satan is "cast unto the Earth". The river of slander (your handiwork) does not reach her. So where is she?