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Letters unlock doors for priest with Alzheimer's
The Catholic Review ^ | July 29, 2010 | George P. Matysek Jr.

Posted on 07/30/2010 4:23:03 AM PDT by MDJohnPaul

After attempting suicide several years ago at a Cumberland penitentiary, a prisoner spent his days lying alone on the floor of his tiny cell. Staring at the ceiling and speaking few words, the man seemed lost.

Father Milton A. Hipsley, then the pastor of St. Mary in Cumberland and a chaplain for the area’s prisons, was moved by the man’s despair. Wearing his black clerics and white collar, the priest entered the cell and lay down beside the motionless figure. He became a channel of God’s mercy.

“Inmates are good people,” Father Hipsley remembered. “They are lonely and they’re frustrated. If you go in and show kindness to them, it’s like showing attention to the barking dog. If you pet the dog, it starts to lick your hand and become like a friend.”

After 16 years visiting prisoners and ministering to parishioners in Allegany County, Father Hipsley faces his own kind of confinement.

Diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease in 2008, the 72-year-old priest had to give up his cherished roles as a pastor and chaplain. He now lives at St. Stephen’s Green on the campus of Mercy Ridge Retirement Community in Timonium, wearing a special bracelet so that medical staff can locate him.

Father Hipsley longs to return to his beloved Cumberland and resume his pastorate and chaplaincy. As that’s not possible, he’s found a new way to minister – a method suggested to him by Archbishop Edwin F. O’Brien – one that lets him reach out to people. Its impact transforms him as much as those it serves.

It’s a ministry of pen and paper.

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TOPICS: Catholic; General Discusssion; Ministry/Outreach; Prayer
KEYWORDS: alzheimers; baltimore; christian; christianity; cumberland; dimentia; maryland; priest; priesthood; prison; rosary; vocation
This is a moving story about how a Catholic priest continues to minister even though he has Alzheimer's.
1 posted on 07/30/2010 4:23:05 AM PDT by MDJohnPaul
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To: MDJohnPaul

Poignant and sad. Yet, it is full of hope because this man has had most of his duties removed, yet he is still able to help people through his prayers.

I say to his fellow clergy — set aside your mundane worries about snow removal, the tree that fell in the school yard in the last storm, and the failing air conditioner one day a week and hie yourselves over to see Fr. Hipsley. It is an act of Mercy.


2 posted on 07/30/2010 4:34:52 AM PDT by afraidfortherepublic (Southeast Wisconsin)
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To: MDJohnPaul

I stopped reading at “Inmates are good people”.

Is this why there are so many priests and nuns outside the prison crying their eyes out when somebody is executed? If so, I would submit that they don’t understand their own religion.


3 posted on 07/30/2010 4:49:20 AM PDT by GadareneDemoniac
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Yes, well, Jesus certainly had a hell of a nerve speaking to those two criminals who were hanging around with him! V’s wife.


4 posted on 07/30/2010 4:52:25 AM PDT by ventana
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Yes, well, Jesus certainly had a hell of a nerve speaking to those two criminals who were hanging around with him! V’s wife.

Jesus never addressed the incarceration of evil doers nor did He ever say that evil doers were "good people" . To compare the two thief's with the general prison population of today is a clear misreading of the Gospel.

The graveyards of full of people who in their final moment of life discovered that inmates are not good people. There are those inmates who have committed unspeakable horrors upon unsuspecting and innocent people and to say they are "good" people is just plain wrong.

This priest is a good man, but he obviously lost his ability to discern evil in man.

5 posted on 07/30/2010 5:43:37 AM PDT by garybob (More sweat in training, less blood in combat.)
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“I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me, I was naked and you clothed me, I was sick and you came to me. I was in prison and you visited me” (Matthew 25:35-36).


6 posted on 07/30/2010 6:16:36 AM PDT by MDJohnPaul
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The priest also prays that more of his fellow clergymen would visit.

“If I’m ever in touch with a priest, it’s usually a situation where there’s an event,” he lamented, “but not like a friend who will come by and spend time with you. If I get near a priest, if he’s free, I’ll lean right next to his shoulder and make a good confession.”

Asked what advice he would have for those confronting major challenges, Father Hipsley said they should “concentrate on serious prayer.”

“If they are devout in their prayer,” he said, “then they have security in facing whatever their situation is that they are going to endure.”

A few minutes later, the priest closed his eyes and clutched his well-worn rosary.

Although I am not Catholic by denomination, Father Hipsley is obviously a saintly man.

I know his faith in the Lord's sustaining grace is not misplaced. And I pray that his fellow priests will give him more of their time now that he so desparately longs for their presence at this difficult point in his life journey.

7 posted on 07/30/2010 7:29:32 AM PDT by Captain Rhino (“Si vis pacem, para bellum” - if you want peace, prepare for war.)
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“I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me, I was naked and you clothed me, I was sick and you came to me. I was in prison and you visited me” (Matthew 25:35-36).

FRiend, you haven't a clue as to Who you are quoting. Jesus is speaking about the End Times and this comes from the Olivet Discourse, the last of 5 discourses.

"When the Son of Man comes in his glory, and all the angels with him, he will sit on his throne in heavenly glory. 32 All the nations will be gathered before him, and he will separate the people one from another as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. 33 He will put the sheep on his right and the goats on his left.

34 "Then the King will say to those on his right, 'Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. 35 For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, 36 I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.'

Next time, quote in context. Better yet, buy yourself a Bible so you know what you are talking about. This passage has everything to do with serving the Son of God and NOTHING to do with claiming evil men are "misunderstood".

8 posted on 07/30/2010 9:06:47 AM PDT by garybob (More sweat in training, less blood in combat.)
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I stopped reading at “Inmates are good people”.

Fine. One question: Do you pray the "Our Father?" If no, then pardon me - never mind.

If you do pray it: Do you stop after "forgive us our trespasses"; or do you continue with "as we forgive those who trespass against us."?

That two letter word - "as" - is important. And, for me, scary

9 posted on 07/30/2010 9:13:20 AM PDT by don-o (Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me, a sinner.)
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To: garybob

Father Hipsley is visiting Christ when he visits those in prison, Garybob. That’s the whole point.


10 posted on 07/30/2010 9:21:03 AM PDT by MDJohnPaul
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Speaking of context, the rest of that passage is instructive for those who thought themselves sheep ending up with the goats; and vice versa.

Wisdom. Let us attend.

11 posted on 07/30/2010 9:29:45 AM PDT by don-o (Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me, a sinner.)
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Father Hipsley is visiting Christ when he visits those in prison, Garybob. That’s the whole point.

No, it isn't. You missed my point. My point was to object bringing the two thieves into the discussion. They were irrelevant to the discussion.

12 posted on 07/30/2010 12:01:51 PM PDT by garybob (More sweat in training, less blood in combat.)
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To: don-o
Speaking of context, the rest of that passage is instructive for those who thought themselves sheep ending up with the goats; and vice versa.

You are correct. However, the original scripture that was given to me was incomplete, i.e. out of context. I posted the scripture preceding so that other readers would know the complete context of what Jesus was saying regarding being visited in prison, and to challenge the OP to be more circumspect when quoting scripture. Had the thread been about sheep and goats, I'd of used that as well.

So, why do you feel the need to mention it? Do you cherry pick scripture in order to make scripture mean things it clearly does not? Context is everything in Holy Writ. That is the wisdom that you should attend to and properly chastise those who would misuse scripture. Or do you think it is OK to allow people to give false impressions of what the Bible says?

13 posted on 07/30/2010 12:20:07 PM PDT by garybob (More sweat in training, less blood in combat.)
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I’m aware of the entire passage. The point I’m making is that when we reach out to the emprisoned (the “evil-doers,” as you say), we are doing what Christ commands. Christ did as much to the man beside him on the cross who was sorry for his sins. Christ associated with prostitutes and tax collectors. He also said that he who is without sin should cast the first stone. It doesn’t mean we condone the crime. It does mean we show love and mercy. “Whatsoever you do to the least of my people, that you do unto me.”
Thank God for people like Father Hipsley.


14 posted on 07/30/2010 12:48:09 PM PDT by MDJohnPaul
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To: garybob
Or do you think it is OK to allow people to give false impressions of what the Bible says?

False impressions? Allow people? I think people are pretty much free on this board to say just about anything within the well known guidelines.

15 posted on 07/30/2010 1:16:28 PM PDT by don-o (Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me, a sinner.)
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