"What matters to the kids." It would matter to my kids that the sodomites want to imitate being married. They seek to destroy marriage. They want to adopt other people's children. They want to use the Foster Parent programs to acquire other people's children for adoption.
My kids have kids, and many things could happen these days that would allow the government, rightly or wrongly, to remove children from people's homes, temporarily or permanently. I loathe to think of some strange scenario in which my grandchildren were taken and placed in the home to "married" sodomites.