An update - our first session went well - we’re seeing a Christian based counselor - he was very positive about the attitudes we displayed in the session. He asked where we were on a scale of 1-10 as far as our commitment to saving the marriage. My answer was 10 - my wife was a 5 - which to me is a building point. Our next session is next Friday. I sincerely appreciate the prayers - I know we can get through this thing.