I do believe once saved always saved. BUT, having said that IF you are saved, then past sinful behaviors will be repugnant to you. If they are not, it is time for some self-checking. Salvation is NOT a blank check to run amok. No, being saved is the time to walk with Jesus, do as He would. And I doubt massaging women into bed complies with that, so, I would question that salvation.
I agree. I have friends and brothers in Christ who would also agree. You definitely have to have something to show your are a Christian. Like living as one.