[wintertime]

The New Testament advises (commands) that we forgive but gives very little instruction on how to do that.

Suggestions anyone?

[aberaussie]

I have found Ken Sande’s book, The Peacemaker, to be very helpful, as well as convicting. Peacemaker’s Ministries and Ambassadors of Reconciliation are both ministries that offer training in dealing with conflict biblically. I’m going for advanced training from AOR later this month since I have been appointed to be a district reconciler in the LCMS.

[aberaussie]

I have found Ken Sande’s book, The Peacemaker, to be very helpful, as well as convicting. Peacemaker’s Ministries and Ambassadors of Reconciliation are both ministries that offer training in dealing with conflict biblically. I’m going for advanced training from AOR later this month since I have been appointed to be a district reconciler in the LCMS.

[stylin19a]

The Our Father ? How can I be forgiven if I can’t forgive ?

Whoever is renting space in your head, pray for them everyday on your knees for 2 weeks, wanting for them what you want for yourself.

Since that ain’t going to happen....yet
The prayer could start out by asking for them to be hit by a bus.
Keep at it. You wont even make it to two weeks. Your heart will be unhardened.