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How to Talk to Your Family About Racism on Thanksgiving
Harper's Baazars ^ | November 19, 2018 | Rachel Cargle

Posted on 11/20/2018 11:33:12 AM PST by GuavaCheesePuff

Toxic ideologies often start around family dinner tables. It's not just an uncle saying a racist joke, or a grandmother determining her xenophobic ideas as “a part of her time.” These comments seep into how we make decisions in voting booths, how judges rule in their chambers, how teachers guide students in school classrooms, how employment decisions are made, and how police react in high-stakes situations.

After a year of relentless atrocities that don’t always make for easy conversation at the dinner table, it's important to make Thanksgiving preparations beyond the tablescape and the menu. This year, I want you to prepare for something a little more nuanced than stuffing or cranberry sauce: I want you to prepare to rock the family boat, with important discussions that stretch beyond the surface of “How's the weather?” and “Who are you dating these days?” So, I'm coming to you with a guide that should push you beyond apathy, and instead, teach you how to be a part of the solution. As Angela Davis reminds us, it is not enough to not be racist. You have to be anti-racist, and if you are not actively being part of the solution, then you are a part of the problem. So here is some language to help you navigate Thanksgiving day dinner.

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1 posted on 11/20/2018 11:33:12 AM PST by GuavaCheesePuff
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To: GuavaCheesePuff

Rachel sounds like she’s a hoot at family gatherings.

She must spend a lot of time alone.

L


2 posted on 11/20/2018 11:34:39 AM PST by Lurker (President Trump isn't our last chance. President Trump is THEIR last chance.)
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To: GuavaCheesePuff

White men bad. Everybody else good.


3 posted on 11/20/2018 11:34:41 AM PST by E. Pluribus Unum (Democracy dies when Democrats refuse to accept the result of a democratic election they didn't win.)
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To: GuavaCheesePuff

There’s dark meat, and then there’s white meat.


4 posted on 11/20/2018 11:34:51 AM PST by gubamyster
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To: GuavaCheesePuff
"Toxic ideologies often start around family dinner tables."

Not all families are dysfunctional like yours Rachel.

5 posted on 11/20/2018 11:34:57 AM PST by mass55th (Courage is being scared to death - but saddling up anyway...John Wayne)
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To: GuavaCheesePuff

My family is already aware of democrats.


6 posted on 11/20/2018 11:35:19 AM PST by DeathBeforeDishonor1
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To: mass55th

I just want to know how this race conversation ends.

Does it end in violence?


7 posted on 11/20/2018 11:35:39 AM PST by GuavaCheesePuff (I want to thank the Good Lord for making me a Yankee-Old Yankee Stadium (1923-2008))
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She wins a free helicopter ride


8 posted on 11/20/2018 11:36:26 AM PST by mrmeyer (You can't conquer a free man; the most you can do is kill him. Robert Heinlein)
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To: GuavaCheesePuff

“After a year of relentless atrocities?”


9 posted on 11/20/2018 11:36:33 AM PST by Ted Grant
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To: GuavaCheesePuff

So, if I only ask for white meat, I’m a racist?


10 posted on 11/20/2018 11:36:34 AM PST by oh8eleven (RVN '67-'68)
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To: GuavaCheesePuff

Reminds me, a few years ago, the liberals were pushing talking points for holiday family gatherings, such as telling the family how wonderful Obamacare was.


11 posted on 11/20/2018 11:37:29 AM PST by Dilbert San Diego
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To: GuavaCheesePuff

I’m always wondering how I should talk to my family about racism at thanksgiving. Finally, the definitive answer.


12 posted on 11/20/2018 11:37:34 AM PST by cuban leaf
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To: GuavaCheesePuff

FOAD, Rachel.


13 posted on 11/20/2018 11:37:41 AM PST by Secret Agent Man (Gone Galt; Not Averse to Going Bronson.)
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To: gubamyster

“There’s dark meat, and then there’s white meat.”

Hey dont forget the “sexism” in the turkey with “legs”, “thighs “ and “BREASTS”. Call the cops!


14 posted on 11/20/2018 11:37:50 AM PST by max americana (Fired libtard employees 9 consecutive times at every election since 08'. I hope all liberals die.)
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To: GuavaCheesePuff

Not even original, Rachel.

Your racist god the Fraud and his handlers started this ploy five years ago today...

https://www.theatlantic.com/politics/archive/2013/11/barack-obamas-recipe-for-heated-holiday-gatherings/281668/


15 posted on 11/20/2018 11:38:52 AM PST by treetopsandroofs
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To: GuavaCheesePuff
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16 posted on 11/20/2018 11:38:53 AM PST by SkyDancer ( ~ Just Consider Me A Random Fact Generator ~ Eat Sleep Fly Repeat ~)
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To: GuavaCheesePuff

I don’t have any black racists in my family, so there is no need to be a liberal and be inappropriate at Thanksgiving and ruin it.


17 posted on 11/20/2018 11:39:07 AM PST by CodeToad ( Hating on Trump is hating on me and America!.)
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To: GuavaCheesePuff

Why not just talk about shopping for HEALTHCARE...?

Oh, joy. Suuuuuure.....


18 posted on 11/20/2018 11:39:10 AM PST by gaijin
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To: GuavaCheesePuff
it is not enough to not be racist. You have to be anti-racist

I agree. That's why I support prosecuting racist organizations like La Raza, BLM, Antifa and the Democrat Party to the fullest extent of the law for all of their criminal actions.
19 posted on 11/20/2018 11:39:28 AM PST by yuleeyahoo (The nation which can prefer disgrace to danger is prepared for a master and deserves one. Hamilton)
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To: GuavaCheesePuff

“This Cocoa is amazing! Let’s talk skin colors, and which ones are better than others!”

20 posted on 11/20/2018 11:39:29 AM PST by Yaelle
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