The correct response would be to use your brains to make the best use of the money- obcviously THEY (the poor relatives) have no clue how to be successful
You help no one by giving them a handout- hire them in a business you create with the money
In the 10 commandments, with Charleton Heston, the Pharaoh is asked who will be the next Pharaoh.
“The man who can best rule Egypt” he says, “And I owe that to my fathers, not to my sons.”