Skip to comments.When is it time to get a divorce?
Posted on 03/04/2017 7:51:06 PM PST by proud American in Canada
I'm doing this on a tablet, so I'm probably doing it wrong. I was just wondering, want to know it's time to file for divorce.
And I haven't been together for a very long time.
I really feel that he ignores me. Which I guess I think is very understandable.
I just think if we would be be together, and by that I mean have s*x, we would be closer. And happier.
I probably should not have posted this no because I'm tired and it's late and I don't know how much I can answer everybody. But I would like some advice I'm just really sad.
Please excuse the typos!
Rule one, don’t ask anonymous people on the internet.
I think you should probably see a councilor or pastor about this. Divorce is a serious thing just as relationships are, but there is always going to be more going on then those of us out here in cyber space know.
Just remember that the opposite of love isn’t hate. It’s indifference. If you say that you just don’t give a crap anymore, I’d be concerned.
By the way, married for over 20 years. have a son 21 and daughter, 17.
Never. Hug him, cry a little and find the reason you married him in the first place.
Tricky question as circumstance are different for each person. I’m divorced but there was some physical and verbal abuse. Not to mention we were not equally yoked.
Well, there are good people here. I trust their counsel.
VERY VERY VERY TRUE!!!
You only learn that by experiencing it.
It was BRUTAL when that gal you liked a lot just didn’t give a #### anymore!
Love or Hate, you have a chance!!
You’re a wise person.
I’ve been wrong all this time! JK :)
Your man won’t have sexual with you?
You are divorced...
Rule 2: Never discuss your sex life with strangers in the internet.
It’s just not becoming.
My advice is stay married. If you’re over the age of 30 it’s extremely hard to find a man who isn’t already drowning in child support payments.
Better to keep the man you have and try and work things out rather than start up with a new mess.
Thank you. That is good advice. :)
They want to go out to breakfast tomorrow.. I want to go to church.
Anyway, thank you!
Do you both get along to a reasonable extent?
In general, divorce is not a good choice, and if you are a Christian, I would double that “not a good choice” concern.
You seem to center your concern around not being more intimate. You do realize men can have more physical problems as we get older, leading to some to choose a physical withdrawal of sorts, without telling their partners why that might happen.
How old are you and how long have you been married? What do you expect in the relationship? Do you have kids? Are they gone?
I’ve been married 40 years, and the relationship has changed and changed and changed some more. I just know there’s nobody I would have rather made this journey with.
Sorry you are so frustrated. Hope things work out. My best.
Excellent point, CC!
I’ll say a prayer for you, for wisdom and strength.
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