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Don't stop dating other men until your boyfriend proposes, says self-styled 'Get the Ring' [tr]
UK Daily Mail ^ | March 23, 2018 | Siofra Brennan

Posted on 03/23/2018 6:36:41 AM PDT by C19fan

A relationship expert who describes herself as the 'Get the Ring Coach' has revealed why women looking for marriage should refuse to date men on an exclusive basis - until they propose.

Love and Relationship Coach Sami Wunder, who is based between the UK and Germany, used the same trick herself when she first met Chris, now her husband, by refusing to stop dating other people until he popped the question.

Nine months later he did and now they have been happily married for five years and have a son, while Sami has been responsible for 95 proposals in two years of business - with one taking just three months.

(Excerpt) Read more at dailymail.co.uk ...


TOPICS: Society
KEYWORDS: dating; dishonest; genderwars; golddigger; marriage; singles
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1 posted on 03/23/2018 6:36:42 AM PDT by C19fan
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5 years, huh?

Let’s see how they’re doing in 10....


2 posted on 03/23/2018 6:37:51 AM PDT by mewzilla (Has the FBI been spying on members of Congress?)
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To: C19fan

Feminazis today say don’t quit dating other people even after you marry.

#SmashMonogamy
#SmashThePatriarchy


3 posted on 03/23/2018 6:39:04 AM PDT by a fool in paradise (Wear an orange pin to mourn the victims of the Tide Pods Challenge.)
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To: C19fan

Uh huh. Women like that don’t tend to stop “dating” period.


4 posted on 03/23/2018 6:39:32 AM PDT by rb22982
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To: C19fan

After all, who doesn’t like sloppy seconds ir thirds?


5 posted on 03/23/2018 6:39:43 AM PDT by Ancient Man
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I can say, without hesitation, Laz..... would not hit it!


6 posted on 03/23/2018 6:40:12 AM PDT by WomBom ("I read Free Republic for the pictures)
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To: C19fan

Poor men. They need to get more militant. Give her a cigar paper ring. Then tell her she ain’t ever going to get the real ring or the real thing. Bye Now!

Then watch her smartazz face.


7 posted on 03/23/2018 6:41:46 AM PDT by dforest (Never let a Muslim cut your hair.)
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To: C19fan

How pathetic is that guy, who was so down on himself that he was forced to propose to a woman who wouldn’t stop doing other guys ?

Talk about a cuck. I thought Germans were supposed to be tough.


8 posted on 03/23/2018 6:42:26 AM PDT by Celerity
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Yes, because a lack of commitment, petulant immaturity, and emotional blackmail are such great foundations for a long term relationship.


9 posted on 03/23/2018 6:43:48 AM PDT by Hoffer Rand (God be greater than the worries in my life, be stronger than the weakness in my mind, be magnified.)
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A relationship expert who describes herself as the 'Get the Ring Coach' has revealed why women looking for marriage should refuse to date men on an exclusive basis - until they propose.

Because demonstrating fidelity during the courtship could NEVER be a requirement to get the man to commit...

10 posted on 03/23/2018 6:45:06 AM PDT by MortMan (We are living in interesting times.)
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Sounds more like a recipe to stay slutty and single.


11 posted on 03/23/2018 6:45:54 AM PDT by eyeamok (Tolerance: The virtue of having a belief in Nothing!)
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Well, I do believe that all people should approach relationships with a a “poop or get off the pot” mentality.... IE.. is this the one? or not... and if not, end it, and if it is then get married. This is for both people... Not just men, but women too...

Don’t let yourself be strung along until “he is ready”... if you are ready and he isn’t, then he’s not the one.

However, I don’t think I agree with, stay away from exclusivity unless he proposes... can’t say its the WORST idea I’ve ever heard.. but I don’t think triggering the jealousy response to get a proposal is likely going to lead the best relationship.

Refusing to be exclusive, may force a man to really think about the relationship, when otherwise he would not... so I get the angle she’s playing here... just not sure its a sure fired winner.


12 posted on 03/23/2018 6:48:02 AM PDT by HamiltonJay
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In 19th Century literature, it was apparently common for women to have multiple suitors, until she accepted a marriage proposal from one. Then again, it was also the case that she was supposed to remain chaste before marriage.


13 posted on 03/23/2018 6:48:39 AM PDT by PapaBear3625 (Big governent is attractive to those who think that THEY will be in control of it.)
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In today’s world sex is cheap for guys - a dumb movie or two, a couple of dinners, and you’re “in”, so to speak.


Stats: In the USA, 72% of African-American births are out of wedlock, 53% American Indians, 42% Hispanics, 25% white.

83% of single parents are mothers, 45% of them are divorced or separated.

34% of single mothers never have been married.


14 posted on 03/23/2018 6:50:17 AM PDT by QBFimi (It is not your responsibility to finish the work of perfecting the world... Tarfon)
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Play Stupid Games, Win Stupid Prizes.


15 posted on 03/23/2018 6:51:35 AM PDT by TADSLOS (Alex Jones isn┬ĺt quite the wing nut now, all things considered.)
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To: C19fan

From the mid 70’s the term dating took on a completely different meaning. If it hadn’t, the title of this piece would make sense. It was the basic advice to women.

Since cultural acceptance of birth control, designed for men, men have continued to rule in their perpetual 17 year old boy dream life

Women don’t know what to do any better now than they did when this all started. They’ll be the last to figure that out


16 posted on 03/23/2018 6:52:55 AM PDT by stanne
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Guys need to try more Asian women. I’ll leave it at that...


17 posted on 03/23/2018 6:53:02 AM PDT by Ragnar Danneskj÷ld
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In 19th Century literature, it was apparently common for women to have multiple suitors, until she accepted a marriage proposal from one. Then again, it was also the case that she was supposed to remain chaste before marriage.

It was easier remaining a virgin until marriage when you were married by 15.

18 posted on 03/23/2018 6:55:15 AM PDT by Drew68
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To: PapaBear3625

The guy is probably dating other women. Why shouldn’t the woman?


19 posted on 03/23/2018 6:55:59 AM PDT by ladyjane
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To: HamiltonJay

Refusing to be exclusive, may force a man to really think about the relationship, when otherwise he would not... so I get the angle she’s playing here... just not sure its a sure fired winner.


Depends on the nature of the relationship. If it’s early in the dating process, either party should continue to date others.

If things have made it into the bedroom, both parties need to be exclusive. Not just physically, but dating-wise also.

There’s a word for a person who has concurrent physical relationships with more than one partner.


20 posted on 03/23/2018 6:56:00 AM PDT by ConservativeWarrior (Fall down 7 times, stand up 8. - Japanese proverb)
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