I have a lesbian story that is a little bit different than this one, I have told it here on FR before.
I was in New Orleans at the Museum of Fine Arts waiting in line for the ticket office to open. A woman in line next to me was talking on her cell phone like she would have if she were alone.
She was telling someone that her choice (yes she said choice) of the lesbian lifestyle had been a mistake. She wished she could go back and ignore those who had lured her into it.
So at least for some of them, it was a choice.
Maybe she could go back, if she chose to.
That's Satan's other ploy--to convince people who have taken the wrong path that they can't go back.
Anne Heche is the poster child of that. She’s a good example to bring up sometimes if the subject comes up.
It's always their choice. ALWAYS.