Concerned you won’t measure up in size and/or ability?
I love men who think they can have as many partners as they want but that women must be virgins or damn near close to it.
Wow, a penis size bust. I’m so shattered emotionally...
Enjoy your cats, wine and The View.
....Or LIE that they are virgins.
When something has to be worked for and is difficult to achieve, then you deserve praise and accolades for achieving an abundance of it. When something is absolutely effortless to you and available to you freely 24/7 , pretty much regardless of what you look like, then there is no merit for racking up a high count. It only ends of devaluing you. Starting to get it?
” love men who think they can have as many partners as they want...”
Key word is “think”.
Women can to the point where they’ve been able if they want to sell it since as long as we can remember.
That post might get you a few private replies from guys who love you too.
Man, am I glad I lucked out. Dont know what Id do if I were out there today.
See also the catalog of anti-male shaming techniques...
So you admit you’re empow-pow-powered?
No, you don't love men. Cats, that's the answer.
For marriage, yes. Men value chastity and beauty in women. Women value beauty, financial security and physical security in men. Men and women have different desires so I’m not sure why you find that dilemma surprising. For a short term fling, most guys could care less about your notch count. But women with higher notch counts are far more likely to end up divorced and cheat than those with a low notch count. I think if the divorce laws/courts weren’t so one sided, men would probably not care as much about how many partners you had previously.