Feminism has really ruined life for many women, not because of equality or opportunity reasons, but because the feminist mentality fosters the false attitude that men and are somehow intrinsically enemy oppressors of women whose whole purpose in life is keep women barefoot, pregnant and submissive to patriarchy.
It also discourages women from acting like or being a women and encourages them to be more like men, something many women are ill equipped to do.
Worst of all, it places an irrational premium on women valuing independence as the highest state of existence for women. For some women,independence becomes an obsession that interferes with or even precludes any chance of a meaningful relationship with a man.
Every life choice for feminist women involving a developing relationship with a guy seems to involve a false choice between surrendering independence in return for moving forward in the relationship or maintaining a ( often false) false sense of independence and stepping away from a relationship.
As these women get older, their focus on being independent increasingly equates with being alone and not just because guys mostly go for younger women. After becoming accustomed to being fully independent and alone many women find it difficult to be a couple with a member of the opposite sex regardless of the level of independence or dependence in the relationship.
Truth is, feminism was invented primarily by 1960s revolutionary radicals who were also man hating lesbians with a grievance mentality and chip on their shoulder to society has whole and not just towards men.
For these 1960s radicals, feminism was both a weapon to undermine the society they hated and wished to destroy and a way to alienate women from men to provide them better access to women for lesbian relationships
On the other hand, dont be too hard on hypergamy.
Hypergamy is a double edged sword and the guys who benefit from hypergamy may have more options and opportunities which is nice, but the downside is that when guy high on the hypergamy scale gets rejected or dumped , he has the sure knowledge that it was because the woman really, really was not into him, or because he screwed up big time because she intentionally walked away from what, for all intents and purposes, was otherwise a pretty hot prospect.
No easy excuses to explain that one away, which really sucks