The uncertainty over opening finally pushed my wife to agree to sending kids to private school. From the “health theater” to proven incompetence with “remote learning”, I just don’t trust they can handle any of this well. Time for small classes, reduced classroom time, and better content intended for parental assistance.
We also switched to private school this fall, for exactly the same reasons you mention. In our case, it was the husband who finally agreed.
It is just time. Private schools handle both physical learning better and distance learning better.