Posted on 06/09/2011 8:06:14 AM PDT by Colofornian
A couple of years ago, I published a BYU Studies article about Mormon themes in Twilight that was picked up by Meridian, an LDS website. I received some feedback on the piece, mostly positive, though several readers took issue with one criticism I made about Stephenie Meyers series:
I find myself concerned about the retrogressive gender stereotypes in all of her novels, particularly the ineptitude of Bella. Although the novels repeatedly tell the reader that Bella is smart and strong, they repeatedly show her powerlessness. She passes out; she trips repeatedly; she is victimized three times in the first novel alone, only to be rescued by Edward. Worse than Bellas damsel-in-distress shtick is her disturbing tendency to blame herself for everything, expose herself to serious harm, take over all the homemaking chores for a father who seems incapable of the most rudimentary standards of self-care, and sacrifice everything for a man who is moody, unpredictable, and even borderline abusive. Many women readers will also be troubled by the extreme self-abasement of Wanda in The Host, particularly one scene where she mutilates her own flesh and another where she lies to protect the man who tried to murder her. These are themes I hope do not originate with Meyers Mormonism. But while they are cause for concern, they do not mar the creative spirit and theological integrity of Meyers work.
One of the emails I received after the articles publication took me to task for this, defended the romantic themes in Meyers fiction, and asked, Whats wrong with looking for a knight in shining armor? What, indeed?
Its not surprising that Stephenie Meyers books have found a strong and loyal audience among Mormon women. She is, after all, one of our own, and we are as proud of her success as we would be if our own biological sister suddenly became a superstar. She has achieved success while remaining faithful to the Church, committed to her family, and (from all reports) interested in sharing her good fortune with others.
I can like and appreciate Stephenie Meyer without agreeing with everything in her books. Or even most things.
So, to the LDS woman who thinks its appropriate for women to wait for a knight in shining armor to save them, I would ask a simple question: Would you want your daughter to date Edward Cullen?
Do you want your little girls first boyfriend to:
* Stalk her movements daily and sneak into her room every night while she sleeps (T 174-5)?
* Slam her against a wall at full force (T 345)?
* Break up with her with no explanation, then leave her in the woods to die of hypothermia (NM 70ff)?
* Pin her wrists down and hold his hand against her mouth so she cannot speak (E 441)?
* Drive like a maniac with her in the car, going 100 miles per hour (T 83ff)?
* Hire someone to kidnap her so she cant visit a male friend who may be a romantic rival (E 145ff)?
* Abuse her physically the first time they have sex, so that her entire body is bruised? (BD 87ff)
* Become enraged when she gets pregnant with his child (BD 130ff)?
On what planet is this romantic? And how is it that weve created a Mormon subculture in which such behavior would be seen not as a red flag, but as desirable in a boyfriend?
Here is what is sad. I haven’t turned the news on this week because I really don’t want the younger kids to know the whole “Wiener” scandal. A parent can use some movies as teaching moments. I’ve known some people who didn’t like “Romeo and Juliet” because they were young teens and suicide occurs. Some didn’t like “The Scarlet Letter” because Hester gets pregnant by someone other than her husband. I’ve read objections to “Jane Eyre” because Jane falls in love with Mr. Rochester (unknown to her that Mrs. Crazy Rochester is in the attic. Sometimes, a love story is just a love story. The characters may change but in the end.. boy meets girl and they fall in love.
Spot on, every word.
A parent can use some movies as teaching moments.
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absolutely. even the Bible says our job is to teach our children, not to protect them forever.
i think your children are very lucky...
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