You are assuming way too much, ebb. Our contributions are ear marked, quite specifically--for our parish, parish school, for St. Anthony's kitchens, St. Vincent de Paul, etc.
There is no collection for a "Catholic Charities" group that does abortion-- well, not yet anyway. Our parish collections are shown to us in black and white: how much goes where. That is one of our pastor's duties.
None of the above do abortions.
Any doctor or hospital that DOES do them is committing murder and they know it. If anyone in that charity arena IS performing abortions our archbishop will be the first one to step in and close it down. He didn't get to be archbishop by taking the easy path or being fearful of abortion clinics/doctors/pills/procedures...or the press.
Have you given money to the USCCB’s Catholic Campaign for Human Development? It’s an annual collection in all U.S. Catholic churches.