Isn't this a 'real' moment ... that makes Stryder seem 'real' to us?
"I hoped you would take me for my own sake. A hunted man sometimes wearies of distrust and longs for friendship"...
It is one of the moments that let's us open our heart to him (a bit). Rings of 'real' truth. I do not consider it to be whiny. Maybe I look to hard for warmth in another.
His was a long, lonely quest. Naturally he would seek friendship among those decent people his paths crossed.