If the culture was pro-father and pro-husband, I would encourage it. As it is now, its better for men not to do so right now.
I remember at church (I now attend a different church) there was a prayer made for all of the unmarried females who just wanted to be married and have children.
While I felt empathy for the poor young ladies, I also thought about my own situation (I’m now divorced - LOL) on how for some people it is never enough and modern American women are hopelessly addicted to money, materialism, and that next “thing” and they pin their happiness on it.
The cultural rot in America is beyond reproach. I think I agree with you sadly.