“we didn’t choose to be gay”
Yes, you did, and you knew it meant you couldn’t conceive a child naturally. There’s no reason for all of society to pay for your voluntary choices.
This is why there has been a constant and ongoing search by the Left to find a homosexuality gene, so that douchebags like this can say it is a civil rights issue because they have no more control of their sexuality than they do of the color of their skin.
No such homosexuality gene exists.