Had a friend who lost two brothers to it & then did it himself and he knew how the other two impacted his mother.
Damn, that’s terrible.
My oldest daughter had a serious boyfriend for a while that may have become more. He was a nice guy, but both of his parents killed themselves, and I was always worried if they got married and things got tough, he would off himself too. When they broke up, I was sad for her, but grateful she wouldn’t have to deal with that later on.
I had a friend who drove to the spot in the road where his son shot himself 6 years before, and painted the headliner of his truck. Leaving a wife, and family to ponder the why. They had a memorial, I wasn’t invited, but wouldn’t have gone if I were.
She was destroyed, sold all they had and moved to Texas to be with her Daughter. My youngest daughter helped her through it all.
Selfish + vindictive. That is all I could think of.