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To Survive My Daughter's Cancer Treatment, I Left Her Behind and Flew to Ireland
Thrillist ^ | April 30, 2024 | Elizabeth Austin

Posted on 05/02/2024 9:09:10 PM PDT by Kenny Bania

Everything crumbled within the first few months. I couldn’t keep up with pandemic e-schooling, solo parenting, full-time remote work, and cancer treatment. I monitored meds, negotiated claims with the insurance company, filled out assistance paperwork, ignored the dishes in the sink, but every time I checked one line off my list a dozen more filled its place. By the time an alert for a cheap flight to Ireland hit my inbox, we’d spent hundreds of days in the hospital.

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"Mother of the Year" candidate right here..../s
1 posted on 05/02/2024 9:09:10 PM PDT by Kenny Bania
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To: Kenny Bania

Gold, Jerry, gold.


2 posted on 05/02/2024 9:16:11 PM PDT by ifinnegan (Democrats kill babies and harvest their organs to sell)
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To: Kenny Bania

I can’t read this. She complained about leg pain!

I had aml leukemia and a stem cell transplant. I saw first hand the selfishness of people. I’m so glad my family were not on that list. This woman makes me ill.


3 posted on 05/02/2024 9:16:22 PM PDT by HollyB
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To: Kenny Bania

Reading this made me sick to my stomach.


4 posted on 05/02/2024 9:18:46 PM PDT by Jeff Chandler (THE ISSUE IS NEVER THE ISSUE. THE REVOLUTION IS THE ISSUE.)
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To: Kenny Bania

Elizabeth Austin: Worst. Mother. Ever (as Comic Book 📕 Guy from “The Simpsons” would say).


5 posted on 05/02/2024 9:24:55 PM PDT by No name given (Anonymous is who you’ll know me as)
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To: Kenny Bania

She sounds like she’d be saying “I deserve to be happy” as a mantra whenever things go slightly wrong.


6 posted on 05/02/2024 9:31:58 PM PDT by Darksheare (Those who support liberal "Republicans" summarily support every action by same. )
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To: Kenny Bania

As expected, from the “about the author”:

She is currently querying her first book, a memoir about the highs and lows of solo-parenting during her daughter’s leukemia treatment. She holds an M.F.A. from Vermont College of Fine Arts and lives in Bucks County, Pennsylvania with her two children and their many animals.


Such a wonderful person.
Truly.


7 posted on 05/02/2024 9:36:21 PM PDT by Darksheare (Those who support liberal "Republicans" summarily support every action by same. )
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To: Kenny Bania

Most people would read her writings and as a first impulse, condemn her for going on a vacation without her very sick child. I do not condemn her. She said it’s only for a week.
This seems to be her way of trying to balance the weight of a parent’s duty to endure with the need to feel some form of relief, albeit temporary.

She apparently has no husband or partner to share these duties with, only her mother.
She probably feels her time in Ireland is ‘stolen joy’, but it’s not. All of us benefit from taking respite, taking some time to maintain yourself as a person. It’s only human.


8 posted on 05/02/2024 9:44:05 PM PDT by lee martell
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What a selfish woman. Good God, I can't imagine that she is still married at this point.

9 posted on 05/02/2024 9:46:10 PM PDT by Governor Dinwiddie (LORD, grant thy people grace to withstand the temptations of the world, the flesh, and the devil.)
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Mom is such a self-centered jerk, the daughter probably ordered her to stay away. It’s not about her.

I saw similar thing in my own family.


10 posted on 05/02/2024 9:46:50 PM PDT by Veto! (FJB Sucks Rocks)
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I was the single mom of two who always found a way to make anything work. No car in the suburbs, enormous loans for graduate school, years spent living on SNAP and public assistance—I worked it all out, and I was sure I’d work cancer out, too.

Listen to people. They will tell you all about themselves without even asking

11 posted on 05/02/2024 9:47:59 PM PDT by PGR88
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To: Veto!

I found her IG where she posted it.
And I let her know how I felt.
This really bothered me.


12 posted on 05/02/2024 9:51:02 PM PDT by HollyB
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To: Kenny Bania

If she was my daughter, I would have given up everything to help her.


13 posted on 05/02/2024 9:54:25 PM PDT by wjcsux (On 3/14/1883 Karl Marx gave humanity his best gift, he died. )
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To: Kenny Bania

A democrat no doubt.


14 posted on 05/02/2024 10:05:20 PM PDT by wjcsux (On 3/14/1883 Karl Marx gave humanity his best gift, he died. )
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I was the single mom of two who always found a way to make anything work. No car in the suburbs, enormous loans for graduate school, years spent living on SNAP and public assistance—I worked it all out [...]

Sucking on the public teat for decades = "finding a way to make it all work out."

Amazing, the lack of self-awareness among some people!

Regards,

15 posted on 05/02/2024 10:09:41 PM PDT by alexander_busek (Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence.)
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To: Kenny Bania

I can understand about needing some pressure relief from something like this.

However, if it were me, I wouldn’t have been able to enjoy said week long vacation much at all.

Maybe taking a day at home once a week to rest and recover, if the child was otherwise stable. If sue had actually made a routine in which she looked after herself and built that inot the schedule, she wouldn’t have gotten to a breaking point like this.


16 posted on 05/02/2024 10:12:09 PM PDT by Secret Agent Man (Gone Galt; not averse to Going Bronson.)
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To: Kenny Bania

so much for that whole motherly instinct thingy...


17 posted on 05/02/2024 10:23:35 PM PDT by Chode (there is no fall back position, there's no rally point, there is no LZ... we're on our own. #FJB)
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To: Kenny Bania

What a selfish skank. Single mom, literally all the support that sick daughter on chemo has... and she takes a mental health vacay to Ireland. And she brags about it?

Utterly unreal.


18 posted on 05/02/2024 10:23:52 PM PDT by DesertRhino (2016 Star Wars, 2020 The Empire Strikes Back, 2024... RETURN OF THE JEDI. )
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To: wjcsux

Amen. As would most normal, loving parents...


19 posted on 05/02/2024 10:27:51 PM PDT by nutmeg (FJB)
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To: Kenny Bania

Some people don’t deserve to have children and she’s one of them. Anyway for anyone out there with cancer here’s an important video from Rogue Scientist that would be of interest to you.

They Beat Cancer with Dog Dewormer!? And it’s based on Scientific Evidence?!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahBab4YSPX8


20 posted on 05/02/2024 10:39:52 PM PDT by jimwatx
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