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Why son refused to stand
The Courier News ^ | 11/25/05 | EMS Fire Lt. Robert Bedard

Posted on 11/25/2005 3:01:56 PM PST by chicagolady

I am the father of the young man who did not stand for the singing of the Mexican national anthem during a cultural awareness program at Larkin High School.

I have been constantly asked to explain the details of the event, and it is in response to these individuals that I offer the following facts.

Some of the students, my son included, were compelled to attend this assembly. The Mexican national anthem was printed on fliers and handed out to the attending students. The Mexican flag was marched in and placed on a podium by itself. The attendees were then asked to stand and sing the Mexican national anthem.

My son was not alone in his refusal to stand. Statements given to me by other youths and parents put the number of refusals at close to 20.

Larkin staff members immediately confronted the seated youth. Some of the students were threatened with in-school suspension; most of the seated students were intimidated into standing.

My son explained to the angry teacher who confronted him that he did not see a U.S. flag on the podium and he did not believe they were going to sing our national anthem. This teacher stated, "They have to stand for our national anthem, so you have to stand for theirs."

My son stated in response, "Yeah, but they're in our country."

The teacher called my son a punk and sent him to the office. The administrator in the office supported the teacher's demand and told my son that he could have made a more intelligent decision. My son was not formally disciplined. The teacher who confronted my son defended her actions to her students during class the following week.

I called Larkin principal Richard Webb to express my disappointment and concern. I described the manner in which my son had been treated. I was told that my son should have stood and that the school stood by its right to have this assembly in its chosen form.

I then exercised my right as a citizen and addressed the school board.

The press was present at the board meeting and media awareness snowballed from that point forward. Some of my statements to the board included, "I am disappointed that those responsible for creating an assembly intended to educate and sensitize Americans also felt free to act insensitively with regard to our culture. It is permissible to present another country's anthem alongside ours and receive standing respect. It is not reasonable to expect or demand that Americans stand and display respect for another flag and country in absence of the American anthem or flag."

I also asked the board to consider two positive actions. "First, encourage Larkin High School administrators to not underscore one culture to the exclusion of others. This ill-conceived mandatory assembly did nothing but widen the current schism. Second, I would ask the board to lay down some principles for future assemblies. While it is good educational practice to teach about other cultures, it is not an acceptable practice to require mandatory response to the patriotic elements of those cultures."

I was appalled by Webb's printed statement. Apologizing only for the "unfortunate spotlight" placed on the school does not acknowledge the process that brought the spotlight. Lack of proper oversight created an assembly that offended a large number of people. Teachers behaving badly guaranteed parental follow-through. Administrative silence and denial has perpetuated their arrogant image.

Trivializing the incident and belittling those it concerned has only confirmed Webb's lack of grounding with the community.

Since Dec. 8, 2004, educational institutions receiving federal funding are required to hold an educational program pertaining to the United States Constitution on Sept. 17 of each year. This year, Sept. 17 fell on a Saturday.

Our high school apparently chose on Sept. 16 not to hold an assembly on the Constitution of the United States, but to educate our youth on the patriotic elements of another country.

- Bedard is an Elgin resident.

11/25/05


TOPICS: Constitution/Conservatism; US: Illinois
KEYWORDS: aliens; borderslanguage; cowardpcbastards; culture; diversityeducation; dontstandforthis; education; immigrantlist; larkinschoolsucks; mexicananthem; mexicosucks; pcnonsense; principalsuckstoo; punkprincpal; punkschoolboard; punkteacher; teachersucks; theiranthemsucks
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This Fire Lt son was honored at an Illinois Minuteman Meeting for having a backbone and sitting down during the Mexican National Anthem.

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1 posted on 11/25/2005 3:01:57 PM PST by chicagolady
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To: kristinn; EternalVigilance; HiJinx; gubamyster

Ping
for a citizen with a backbone!!


2 posted on 11/25/2005 3:03:05 PM PST by chicagolady (Mexican Elite say: EXPORT Poverty Let the American Taxpayer foot the bill !)
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To: chicagolady

Ping for a true American.


3 posted on 11/25/2005 3:04:13 PM PST by Dustbunny (Main Stream Media -- Making 'Max Headroom' a reality.)
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To: chicagolady
I am the father of the young man who did not stand

Interesting choice of screen names.

4 posted on 11/25/2005 3:05:01 PM PST by Focault's Pendulum (I'm not a curmudgeon!!!! I've just been in a bad mood since '73)
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To: Focault's Pendulum

LOL!!!!!!!!!!


5 posted on 11/25/2005 3:05:53 PM PST by chicagolady (Mexican Elite say: EXPORT Poverty Let the American Taxpayer foot the bill !)
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To: chicagolady

Simple way out here. Just claim your refusal to stand is religiously based. That's been constitutional law for over 60 years.

Also it will really fluster the PCniks.


6 posted on 11/25/2005 3:06:04 PM PST by Restorer (Illegitimati non carborundum)
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To: chicagolady

for a citizen with a backbone!!

Has a nice ring to it. Rare too.


7 posted on 11/25/2005 3:06:07 PM PST by Chickensoup (Turk...turk...turk....turk....turk...turkey!!!!!!)
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To: SwinneySwitch; Born Conservative; Clemenza

Robert Bedard Rebuttal Ping!


8 posted on 11/25/2005 3:08:42 PM PST by chicagolady (Mexican Elite say: EXPORT Poverty Let the American Taxpayer foot the bill !)
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To: chicagolady

Where is this Larkin High School in Illinois and what is the principal's email address? I think it's time to give him a piece of our American minds. We need to continue to inundate these morons, nationwide, with our messages. This p.c. crap is only getting more twisted all the time.


9 posted on 11/25/2005 3:09:10 PM PST by john drake (roman military maxim: "oderint dum metuant, i.e., let them hate, as long as they fear")
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To: chicagolady

See, if he had refused to stand up during the U.S. National Anthem there wouldn't have been any problem. He would have been simply exercising his right of self expression.


10 posted on 11/25/2005 3:09:51 PM PST by USNBandit (sarcasm engaged at all times)
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To: Focault's Pendulum
EMS Fire Lt. Robert Bedard

He wrote the article.

11 posted on 11/25/2005 3:09:51 PM PST by sausageseller (Look out for the jackbooted spelling police. There! Everywhere!(revised cause the "man" accosted me!)
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To: chicagolady
Sept. 16th = Mexico's Independence Day...so even more gravity w/ the incident than presented in the article.
12 posted on 11/25/2005 3:09:53 PM PST by TheOracleAtLilac
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To: chicagolady

Boo Yeah!


13 posted on 11/25/2005 3:10:17 PM PST by xcamel (a system poltergeist stole it.)
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To: chicagolady
My son explained to the angry teacher who confronted him that he did not see a U.S. flag on the podium and he did not believe they were going to sing our national anthem. This teacher stated, "They have to stand for our national anthem, so you have to stand for theirs."

Gosh, back in 1972 when I was in eighth grade, I only had to stand in the corner with my nose pressed against the wall when my "social studies" teacher explained to us how superior the Chinese system was to our system down to the point of stating that they ALWAYS take their shoes off before entering their abode.

I replied with "of course they would remove their shoes for after working in the rice patties and lacking a free system it would be only prudent".

This teacher wound up being an elected State Senator in my state as a Democrat of course.

14 posted on 11/25/2005 3:11:31 PM PST by EGPWS
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To: chicagolady

Bravo! bump.

Great letter.


15 posted on 11/25/2005 3:13:18 PM PST by FreedomPoster (Guns themselves are fairly robust; their chief enemies are rust and politicians) (NRA)
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To: SC33; Condor51; BillyBoy; TheRightGuy; spintreebob; ozarkgirl; technochick99; razorgirl; ...

Chicagoland Freeper Ping!!!!!!


16 posted on 11/25/2005 3:13:23 PM PST by chicagolady (Mexican Elite say: EXPORT Poverty Let the American Taxpayer foot the bill !)
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To: chicagolady
My son explained to the angry teacher who confronted him that he did not see a U.S. flag on the podium and he did not believe they were going to sing our national anthem. This teacher stated, "They have to stand for our national anthem, so you have to stand for theirs." My son stated in response, "Yeah, but they're in our country."

Excellent response by the kid. Was he that quick, or did he think about that response beforehand? Either way, what a great way to highlight was dullards these teachers are.


17 posted on 11/25/2005 3:13:51 PM PST by SkyPilot
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To: chicagolady
Our high school apparently chose on Sept. 16 not to hold an assembly on the Constitution of the United States, but to educate our youth on the patriotic elements of another country.

This needs some explaining as well.

18 posted on 11/25/2005 3:14:48 PM PST by mewzilla (Property must be secured or liberty cannot exist. John Adams)
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To: USNBandit
See, if he had refused to stand up during the U.S. National Anthem there wouldn't have been any problem. He would have been simply exercising his right of self expression.

Yes, not only that, he would be considered a hero if he were a big-time athlete who refused to stand for the American national anthem.

Contact info for the school and school board, please.

19 posted on 11/25/2005 3:14:54 PM PST by wouldntbprudent
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To: chicagolady

May I be the first to say that this letter was beautifully written?

Better style, for instance, than 99% of current writers for the New York Times.

Better organization than most of essays posted here in the forum, although most are written by professional writers.

Better logic and more signs of rational thought, than you could probably find in any of the classrooms at that school.

Firm, but polite, unlike the rude and thoughtless behavior of the school teachers and administrators involved in this episode.

Altogether an admirable piece of work. I think we can see where this young man gets his principles--from his father and family.


20 posted on 11/25/2005 3:15:24 PM PST by Cicero (Marcus Tullius)
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