I think you misunderstand. College, work and becoming something is a small part of learning about life,,,it helps if you learn from your parents and whatever chirch and friends you have growing up before you embark on life.
Out there is not a safe place to learn if you ask me. College campuses are notorious bad places for a girl to learn amything. Amd the work place is marginally better. Life is learned at home.
Thanks for the further explanation. I get what you’re saying now. I don’t necessarily agree with it as a way of life for all young women. But for some, heck yes. It’s ideal to have a longer-term tether to the parents and home. For some males, too.