Grant for the sake of argument that you're correct about Virginia. The problem is, most of the secessionist states did not (could not!) have such clauses. The independent country of Virginia entered into a compact (which included significant military support) with states that were in open revolt against the U.S.
Virginia thereby declared itself to be our enemy, and as such the U.S. was justified in a military campaign against it.
As has been pointed out, the secessionist states were not in revolt against civil authority, since the duly-elected governments of those states were the civil authority. Nowhere does the Constitution state that the Union shall exist in perpetuity. |