None of the Muslim countries you name volunteered - they either had their own agenda (Central Asian Republics, Northern Alliance) or were pressured (Pakistan, Jordan, Bahrain, etc.)
Islam being all that it is, giving in to the Muslims/Arabs over Israel isn't going to buy us peace. As many have said, including the Islamists, this is a war against Islam. We will all be Moslem one day soon if it's not contained.
It is not an either/or proposition. We are allies with those we can work with, enemies of those we can't. If we turn all the Muslims against us, how are we going to get war material to the areas of operations?