I'm not judging her. I'm judging what she does.
I suppose that your life has been without even the least suggestion of impropriety. Frankly, I feel that the idea of men putting down a woman for exotic dancing is the ultimate pot calling the kettle black. It is an industry that caters exclusively to men. Many of whom are claiming to be as self righteous as you portray yourself.
And as long as what she is doing is not hurting anyone, you still have no right to judge, I believe that is left up to God. But thanks for calling.