Exactly. Men don't frequent strip joints for the stimulating conversation.
HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Guess again!!!!
I have a buddy who worked at a strip joint as a bouncer. He was about 6'5", 300+ lbs, and a fascinating man. In addition to being a fellow gun nut, his politics were, like mine, to the right of Godzilla.
I used to stop at the strip joint after working late at night, on a regular basis, *just* for the stimulating conversation. I quit going there after he left.
FWIW, I got to know some of the dancers, and 90% of them were there because of how well it paid.
It's all the result of men marrying women who won't dance naked for them... so make sure you marry one who will.