Believe me, as a woman and a patriot, I value those men and thank God for them everyday. Idiots that do not, are just that, idiots.
Just a note, Gloria Steinem got married. Guess the fish needed a bicycle. Can't say I envy the bicycle...:-)
However, the cold reality is that during the Revolutionary War, before it and after it, only about 1/3 of those living in those 13 Colonies supported the revolution and the new country.
1/3 was loyal to Britain and the king before, during and after the war.
Another 1/3 was too gutless to declare for either side. The early ancestors of moderates. My grandfather said these were the Americans who wore out the croutches of their pants straddling the fences of right and wrong.
However, that 1/3 who wanted liberty, and then the about 5-10% of them whom, became soldiers, sailors and members of the militia are the real Patriot heroes. They fought the war and made the sacrifices for the other 2/3's then, and for the rest of us to inherit.
This Memorial Day those of us who descended from that 1/3 or have adopted their love of this country offer our thanks to those who served, suffered and died for our current liberties. Hopefully, we will see more Americans adopt that love of this country and respect/honor the sacrifice that all American Military people have made for all of us.