We can start with Hosea 1:10,11. What does it say and how do you explain what it says in light that same brotherhood? Do you see any implications other than the one I drew? If so, then what, and what's your hard evidence?
How can you possibly hold against a position when you have no idea what facts support that position? Losttribe has managed to sum it up in a couple minute's reading. If it is so explicitly wrong, that ought to be easy to point out.
You obviously have deeply held beliefs. At least do them, and others that hold the same beliefs, justice with a reasonable defense. 