It is what it is the churches are where they are at.
Jimmy Carter spoke of men committing adultery in their hearts and judging those whose sexual sin was out in the open for everyone to see.
He had quite a few words to say to Playboy back in 1976 but I guess the “Christian Men” just wanted to look at the pictures.
Christian men often turn to porn because christian women don’t uphold their parts of the marriage contract. Not only about sex, but they recognize him as head of the house and treat him with respect. Alienation or withholding of affection is grounds for divorce. Sex in marriage is a given. They shut it down on a guy and now hes trapped in a sexless or dead-wife sex marriage. Thats not good for either of them in the marriage. Wives wthholding sex from husbands is like husbands withholding non-sex romance/emotion from wives.