As I always said, a Calvinist to be a soul-winner has to talk like an Arminian. Here is Spurgeon talking about our lives drawing someone to God, when it is (according to Calvinism) only God that can do that!
That's pretty weak FTD; no calvinist here has alluded that we cannot be tools in the Lord's hands. You want it to be you, while Calvinists admit that it is the Lord.